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just trying to see what people really want. myself i want that girl that just cant live without me wants to always be with me...calls me 10 times a day just to tell me shes thinking of me always wants to be kissing me holding hands and kissing in public letting everybody know im hers get mad when another girl even looks at me kinda love...

common people your really disapointing me in a major sence of the word.. its love its suposed to be scarry nit knowing what one day to the next is gonna bring you...its love its supposed to be psycotic and most of you want stability and thats not love...

Thats the kind of love i want. I love a good stalker because it turns me on.

see now she knows what love is....

Hmmm....
Seems more like obsessive codependency than love.

Bla bla bla, come on. Take a long look in the mirror everyone needs someone and i sure as heck aint no codependent. Stalkers rule.................

No choice for me to pick from.I want a live forever love where we give 1 another space when needed and yet are happiest when together.a non-jeaous love who respects me and I him.we can share memories good and bad and make our own.Be able to sit down talk out problems when they arise.A passionate love filled with suprises that never gets boring.

you can have space with a good stalker well atleast youll think you do because you wont know hes around till he wants you too....where has all the passion gone in todays world it used to be you werent a stalker you were persistant and that was a good thing now days you look at a woman more than a minute and its sexual harrasment and its only sexual harrasment if the guy is ugly and you dont want him looking at you if the guy is good looking then its a compliment i think the world has twisted and messed up the whole idea of love by making marriage disposable its just too damn easy to walk away now days....whatever happened to I do always and forever instead of till i get bored with you or till i find someone better looking or with more money i dont think i should have done this poll every time i look at it it just depresses me im loosing faith in animal attraction which is one of the main properties of love damn it......

homser,
Do you even understand the meaning of the words "stalking" and "stalker" or how they came about?

Stalk: (stôk)
verb
1. To pursue by tracking stealthily.
2. To follow or observe (a person) persistently, especially out of obsession or derangement.
3. To go through (an area) in pursuit of prey or quarry.

stalker
noun
1. someone who walks with long stiff strides
2. someone who stalks game
3. someone who prowls or sneaks about; usually with unlawful intentions [syn: prowler]

from Old English -stealcian meant to move stealithy, as to not be detected, in order to hunt, trap, or kill an animal of prey. In Middle English it became applied to the criminal behavior of using the same stealthful tactics to instead hunt, trap, or kill human beings. In Modern English the term has been applied to the stealthful tracking of human beings for any illegal purpose.

This is not any type of love. This isn't even a 2-way relationship because there is no emotion reciprocated by the prey except fear. This is predatory.

I fully believe in being in love, dedication, loyalty, fidelty, working through hard times, sticking it out, spending immense amounts of time together, and upholding marital vows for a life time.
But none of that qualifies as stalking. It qualifies as stable, lasting love.

I don't want a man who stealthily hunts me down to hunt, trap or kill me, or any other nefarious or criminal behavior. That simply is not love.

i think your looking too much into the poll darling.im just saying the whole stalking thing has been blown way out of purportion you used to be able to pursue a women to let her know that you were seriously interested in her now days you even look at a woman too long and you get a sexual harrasment charge. there used to be a time when you could let somebody know you found them attractive now days you go to jail for it....relax it isnt like im out stalking girls or huring them you took it too literally you obviously didnt read after the word stalker it said stalker kind of. as meaning just cant get enough of that person....now som might see that as a mental disorder and that fine but if so show me to the institution where they keep women who can love like that.....because from my experience women these days dont know what sense of the word is....they just roll it out like its like saying hello or something...

I want that crazy kinda love. The kind where no other woman compares to me in his eyes. I want him to think about me all the time.

see you get it..

Okay, truthfully?, this is the kind of love I want. I would like someone who has "been there, done that" with the love with marriage. Someone who would enjoy having a significant person in their life without having to fuse the two lives together. He would have his place (and space) and I would have mine. But we would have someone to do things with (all things, wink!) and someone who would be there when you needed to pick up the phone and talk to about whatever was going on in your life. THAT to me would be very nice!!

Connie

you forgot someone to paint your toe nails

Oh, yeah, and that, too (laugh). Thanks for reminding me, Parker!

I'd prefer my fingernails,need a good manicure,but most important massage of neck and shoulders every week.

I agree! But the majority of men think you're too needy when you want to hear from them every day. What's wrong with having that excited feeling when you see his number on your caller ID? When he calls you on his lunch break because he just couldn't help himself? Geez, how does anyone concider this stalking or being clinky?

Where have you been all my life :)

Wow. Good luck with that one, buddy.