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ready for humer on the situation if you wanna go for it lol

Hey man, I feel your pain... I'm in that same boat with ya. I don't like fighting with my ex (never did) but that seems to be the only way we know the other is there... Unless we are trying to out "hurt" the other, and trust me... THAT don't make you feel any better... You just have

As for simply focusing on the "bad" times... I think it comes from "what" she did to hurt you. The best thing you can do (at least it worked for me) is to dig through everything you have left over of you and her (photos work best), and study them... remember back to that very moment when it was taken...

...soon, after doing that enough, everything "bad" she did to you/you did to her, washes by the wayside and you only think back to how much fun it was having her around...

Trust me, brutha.... it works....

--cwb

I feel your pain dude! Divorced twice and exgirlfriend has me out of my house I pay for,and utilities. I'm hanging in there though and not causing trouble.
It's all for the best.
Dealing with a bad breakup or divorce can bring you down but you have to think of #1,that's you. You are no good to anyone if you are a wreck. keep sane,don't dwell on the bad and soon all the bad will be forgotten. the worst is if you have kids and have to deal with child support,thay hire the dumbest mu#*$@ f*#&¿%s and keeping them happy works on you.

Seems like this thread died? Thought I'd still give my example on how things can work out if you stay cool and let time solve your troubles.

I've had a few rough weeks being thrown out of my house and topped off with being laid off from a job I've had for almost 5years, I've been scared the shop would close for 6months and what I'd do if I was laid off? Have to pay child support or thay'll put you in jail.

Well unemployment is better than working reduced hours,I've made out ok with only 36 hours so I can live. Dealing with child support has been a madding process before,but things have worked out ok. Still the simplist life form known to a man.

Talked with my landlord,lawyer,and local P.D. today and I'll be able to go back home Monday!!!!! The land lord is not going to charge me rent for the month I wasn't allowed there!

When things go bad it's hard to stay calm,good friends and family can help alot. Live within your means, save some money, and make shure you can take care of your selfe should you run into tough times.

That's my .02¢