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well i thank that if he dont belive you and the outher is lieing to him you should come first if he dont belive you find some who dose

I'm sorry that happened to you and he's not worth it if he doesn't believe you. I mean who told him something that was a lie, why would this person do that? I mean aren't we all here to find someone, why would someone cause so much drama, don't they have a life of their own or are they jealous that maybe you found love and they didn't? I wish you luck, sweetie, but if he won't talk to you then he wasn't the one and you'll find someone better that'll treat you right and will always believe you.

Erika

Its true the guy should have talked to you first and believed you, but a little secret. Guys dont want drama either. Just like most of us, if he is on here, then something in a past relationship really shook him. What he heard probably scared him a little bit...bad memories maybe? Try to talk to him again. If he is worth keeping around then he will get back to you. Just try to understand what he may have went through and that he is just probably scared to have it happen again

Stop talking to him?
I mean if he's purposely ignoring you, take the hint.

Myself, I would let it go. If I spent all my time worried of the lies which have impacted my life, I'd be stark raving mad. Sometime ago I came to the understanding that self-love is the dominant passion now prevalent in the United States, a disease of the me, me, me, society created laws adverse to this Republic. People of that embrace, its disconnect of means to protect individual behavior, greatly enjoy the anonymity laws, its results, give to a person seeking self pleasure without the guilt associated with personal connection. It has become much easier for a person to deny truths of there actions, by the truths they imagine add to their desires, their prosperity, with the easiest course of action. Lies do catch up with people, and I'm sure you can take solice in that smantha. You know the truth, while that someone, you speak of, needs to learn it.

no forget about him hes a LOSER and you can do better

forget about him, if he didn't believe you over some stranger then he's not worth your time

I hate to say this but...I agree with the advice people have been givin you. Long story short, I have been in a situation similar to yours. Don't waste your time on people that don't want to believe in you, or get to know you for you no matter what another may say!!!!! Keep your head up!! I am a firm believer that the one we are supposed to be with is out there for us somewhere.

your experience with that man was a red flag. he is not serious about your relationship. I know it happened to me lots.

That's because you're still young. When I was your age, I believed that too. I'm now my age, and I haven't found her yet.

I don't think that anybody on this thread stopped to think that the guy may be lieing about he heard a rumor it may be that he was just stringing her along because he may have had another woman on the line and things may have been starting to work with her.

That's exactly what I was thinking, GhostDude. Amanda, Honey, ask yourself one thing: If he did hear some kind of lie, and he's holding on to that kind of lie, and you're beating yourself up trying to get him to talk to you, is it worth trying make him change? This would happen over and over and over again over the course of your relationship. You're frustrated now, imagine doing this for a year, or two, or ten... You have to ask yourself if you have the energy to deal with that.

I do agree with GhostyBoy though. I think it's just an excuse, cause he couldn't figure out how to end it well. Sad. My question is: Why are we so afraid to tell the truth about our real feelings? Why can't a guy just say: Hey, it was nice, but I'm just not that into you. Sorry. I had a date with a man from Akron, just under an hour away. I thought we hit it off GREAT! He wrote a couple of times, answered a couple of texts, always real pleasant, but didn't suggest another date. So, I asked him. His response? It's not you, it's the 20 bucks it cost me to get up there. ARE YOU KIDDING ME!!?? I'm not worth a lousy 20 bucks? He didn't even pay for the date, we went dutch. He just wasn't that into me, and that's ok. I didn't have anything invested in it, so just tell me the truth, and let me move on.

Be Glad you found out now.