Online Dating

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oreocookie34 Oklahoma City, Oklahoma USA
I am new to this whole online dating situation but I have noticed 1 thing no matter what site I join and that is the fact that alot of the men that state they are looking for a long term relationship or dating are really looking just to get luckyyay . I am not trying to say that all men are that way but i'll begin to chat with somebody and try to get to know them and about 3 or 4 hours into it they're making comments about sexdoh . I was told the other day that it's just not the men, that the women are the same way. I was wondering if anyone else is experiencing this or if i'm just lucky enough to attract these people lolhmmm



cherokeemoon grove, Oklahoma USA
no sweety ur not alone.the sites r a mess and sex seems to be on most of their minds. hug
Wynnewood84 Wynnewood, Oklahoma USA
It depends, really.

MOST guys say that. It's a defense mechanism. Most guys in Oklahoma go fishing so much, it's become second-nature.

Don't get discouraged; some guys ARE looking for real, long-term relationships. Some of us are tired of the mind games of dating, tired of the psychological warfare like you're talking about, and DO just want to form a real, family-oriented relationship. We're rare, but we're out there...and we vote.

Also, it depends on who you talk to. Consider yourself lucky you can weed out the idiots early on; some women aren't that lucky.

Besides, I live here in Oklahoma too. And I can say from experience, most guys couldn't win a Checkers game against a signpost with a wig on.

Don't give up. You'll find the real deal! At the very least, you'll find someone who thinks with his brain, and not his other parts.

Word of warning: Those who think with the good brain (the one in your head) may be a bit neurotic, affectionate, and compulsive. But at least they're honest, blunt, and to the point.

They also tend to be wordy.



theozzlives Oklahoma City USA
I'll be the first to admit it I like sex, but I'm not looking for that I'm looking for a relationship with someone who loves me and I can love her.



wendywindy Oklahoma City, Oklahoma USA
You get three or four hours of conversation. I can't get past the first IM, let alone a full conversation.

Sometimes I think I have skank written on my forehead. YIKES!

That's why I have decided to say no to online dating and rather just chill out here and make friends! Besides, we can never have to many friends!




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