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I think, for me... it depends on the kids... I take it on a child-by-child basis. disrespect, arrogance, and generally bad behaviored children kinda get on my nerves. Not as much as the parent, I'm sure, but we weren't raised that way, and it kinda leaves a bad taste in my mouth that so many "liberal" minded "Save the childeren, Stick it to the parent" people are so ready to throw parents into prison for punishing their children the way that children SOMETIMES need. I am NOT an advocate of abusing ANYBODY, mind you... but it has become fact, that when you spare the rod... you spoil the child!!
Not all children are unruly. Actually most "midgets" are real sweet hearted childeren, and I like em!!!

Sorry... back to the question at hand... I think that most men like children.. afterall, we like to get down and play too... we just do it with better toys!

It isn't really the issue of a woman having kids... THAT is pretty much expected when you get into your 30's. 40's and on up...

What MATTERS is when a guy, like myself, single and searching, sees LOADS of women that have "never been married" and have 1, 2, 3 or more children, OR we find women in our age group that has a young child from 1 month on up to 18 months old.. You really do have to questioon that woman's morals and scruples.

ALSO, and this is a very big issue... WHERE is the Father and is he in constant contact with his children, or is he being denied access for ANY reason other than by criminal conduct sanctioned by the courts...

Are BOTH parents EQUALLY supporting the child(ren) or are the women just randomly collecting child support checks?

THESE are the PRIMARY issues men face with women with children.

As far as the Fathers of these children, are they to a point where their focus is on the children or worrying about what the mother is doing with other men?

The statistics show that MOST child deaths are caused eithger by the Mother or the Boyfriend of the Mother... DOJ and DHHS. I have studied this trend for well over a decade and have founf these stats are actually much higher than reported...

Does THIS give you any idea?

i love kids and i have 2 myself but they dont live with me my ex has them

dont get discouraged i could care less if a woman has kids or not as long as shes honest and would never cheat or anything like that im up for it

Sorry, I'm not sure I understand something. How does a woman our age having a younger child raise questions about her morals or scruples?

sure i got 3 boys, they live with the evil x, luv kids, they an brightin a bad day, steve