Hey Mike,I have to agree with Debbie I realize that on a date site the first thing we see is a picture and we make a judgement call based on the pic and then we might go ahead and look at their profile. I have had men look at mine and write to me and oh I am so wonderful and all that they ar looking for until they find out that I have 48 more lbs to lose before I will be back to me.They don't wait to find out that I have already lost 99 lbs of the weight I gained less then 17mths ago and it wasn't easy I was very sick but I am 100% now except the 48lbs.They don't bother to find out that I am a very confidant and sexy woman and that I am extremely intelligent even though I am a simple,laid back,country farm girl,and that I think that the simple things ARE the most important things in life,I don't have to be wined and dined.I am funny and very easy to get to know.They don't stop to find out that I am a different, one of a kind design,so you can't just go on first look. I believe that there has to be chemistry but that may come like Debbie
said she fell in love with him more and more every day.Anyway I will get off my soap box now.

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