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ive been a member here a little over a month now and ive been looking and searching ive even sent message but nobody seems to write back..is it becouse of my looks...is it becouse i have kids.......what should i do???
Sorry you are having a hard time finding someone. I think maybe most young women do not want to start out a relationship if the guy has children...funny, they wouldn't think twice if they were the ones with children. Somehow it seems to be a double standard which makes things hard for the single dad. I certainly don't think it's your looks.
I wish you luck......and take good care of those babies...right now, they should be your priority which I am sure they are. The right lady will come along at the right time.
~Trish~