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Be yourself. Don't change for anyone. When it is right, she will find you and love you for who you are.

Don't try so hard. Are you calling everyday or several times a day? DON'T

If your so easy to get maybe play semi-bad boy ( in your case )good boy. It is a shame you have to play games but sometimes it's the only way to get your foot in the door.

The trick is getting the date. If you don't get some alone time how are you going to get to know the real girl. who you think you like may not be your type.

when I married my husband he didn't ring my bell and we were together 28 yrs untill his death. He simply wasn't who I thought I would be with. Then I woke up. I wanted Mr. Nice Guy and I married him.

Good Luck
angelface51

you are right, they are just full of shit. having manners is a sign of respect.... not less confidence. keep doing what you're doing! it will eventually pay off!

Just be yourself. Women like nice men anyway. What planet are they from.

As everyone else has said be yourself. because if you fake who you are and get into that relationship and become serious then all of a sudden change most of the time it goes down hill. not all women want to macho tuff guy. to have some with some sensitivity or some confidence and can be respectful never hurts. but overall just be who you are it is a waste of time to change yourself for some else's liking

it really all depends on the woman

Sounds like you are a really nice guy and know how to treat women. Alot of women see good manners as a man being weak, but you simply haven't met the right one! Don't be afraid to look a woman in the eye, and if she doesn't do the same, forget that one. If you're hanging with guys who are not like yourself, maybe you should find some new friends. Best of luck! look

Well it sounds like ur just a plain old nice guy if thats the real you then stay that way, putting on an act isnt going to get u anywere anyway. , keep being you and the rite chick will like it