Email sender location tracer sites are out there. I use them, in my cause I have had women tell me they are in Pennsylvania. When I trace there email she shows up in Russia. Here are a few web site you can use for this
http://www.ipligence.com/emailtrace, http://www.johnru.com/active-whois/trace-email.htmlhttp://www.geobytes.com/TraceRouteLocator.htmhttp://network-tools.com/Also go to
http://www.zonealarm.com/security/en-us/anti-virus-spyware-free-download.htm. I have been using the free version for years and when set up correctly it will tell you if a ping is bening send to your computer as well as if software is trying to get in or out of your ports. Windows has a lot of open ports.
also run Ad-aware. AVG (http://free.avg.com/) anti-virus software.
Last check outhttp://www.grc.com/ check out the shields up, Leak test, It is a great site for info as well. Well hope this help every one. It has helped me over the years. Have a great day