Where are all the good men at? I have been here for three years (4)

You ladies are so fickle. There are many good men out here, but you just judge us by the make of our car or how much money we have. Have you stopped by to get to know me? You have looked at my profile and kept walking. Well let me tell you that because I am separated and living apart, that it is not divorce, but it is the same thing, just the cost of divorce is restricting right now. But will divorce and spend the money for it when I find someone deserving of me. I took care of my wife for 37 years, until she just wanted a new life. We never wanted for anything because we were non-materialistic, and down to earth. It was her decision to leave, she was too young to know what she wanted, and married to get out of a abusive father since she was 13. She has PTSD and needed someone to love her. Now that she is on her own, she wants to find herself. She never went to prom, dropped out at 16 when we were married, I was 21 and had reasons to want to help. But times change, and I just want to get on with my life and give my remaining days with my love of my life, and enjoy what life has to give. But the women who say they are looking for a good man, wouldn't know a good man when they meet one because they passed me by. Yeah I may not be buff, or rich but I am the best man I can be. I am not a drunk, druggie, or have ever had any disease, and my health is great. So why don't you give up your scammer life and really look for a good man, maybe even get to know me for what I am. I will not fall in love with a shallow woman so don't try. If you love the country, and a simple life, not a dead life, just don't like the party life, I stayed out of trouble this way and never been convicted of any crimes.
Here I am 58 and waiting for a lady who is sick of all the scammers on these sites. Be serious and be my friend first, you'll find I have surprises for the woman who looks past my profile, who knows I may be rich, and just want a good companion. Things change and things look smaller in the mirror.