Looking for a good guy who doesn't want just sex on the first time we meet

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Cathy0519 Glenside, Pennsylvania USA
Hello out there, My name is Cathy and I am going through a divorce. This scene is so new to me that it is disgusting. I am a very attractive woman but everytime I meet someone when I say no to sex on the first date that is the end of hearing from them. What is the problem here. Are there any good guys near Glenside, PA who are not like that? If so please contact me.
BILLONTHEHILL BUTLER, Pennsylvania USA
WHERE IS GLENSIDE??confused
Cathy0519 Glenside, Pennsylvania USA
Glenside is in the philly suburbs, abington township montgomery county



Mr_Kevy pittsburgh, Pennsylvania USA
I dont want a girl who is going to be willing to sleep with me on the 1st date. The most i would want to do on a first date is hold hands and maybe a little kiss.

I think sex would actually be good 3-6 months down the road.
However if we are all over each other, and dating frequently, maybe at least a month, lol.



Wakiela Levittown, Pennsylvania USA
Hi Cathy,

I've been on the dating scene since my X and I seperated back in 2002. I'd say 80% of the men I've met try for sex on the first meeting, needless to say those guys never got the chance for even a 2nd meeting. This doesn't mean their all like that. Keep the guard keep the faith the good ones are there some where.

Mariewave
BILLONTHEHILL BUTLER, Pennsylvania USA
I HAVE TO SAY,THATS ONE THING I NEVER WENT FOR. IF YOU LIKE THE PERSON YOU HAVE TO HAVE RESPECT. WE I MEET SOMEONE SEX IS THE LAST THING I'LL TALK ABOUT, I LIKE TO KNOW WHAT THE PERSON LIKES IN LIFE.IF IT MENT TO BE THE SEX THING WILL COME UP LATER,BUT THATS THE WAY I DO THINGS. HOPE YA FIND WHAT YOUR LOOKING FOR. HAVE A GREAT DAY.

BILL
thatplayer89 york, Pennsylvania USA
if you going through divorce why are u looking for a man? and i dont know how you dress when u meet a guy but if you wear your goods out. they going 2 bark 4 sex. i mean damn even if they just want sex you dont have to give it make them work for it



securerg Elizabeth, Pennsylvania USA
I agree with you,but to me it seams like the women that i have met,want it more.They say they want something long term,but they want the sex now.I do wish to find a life long partner,but i dont think it will happen.Dont give up,good luck.
nesara311 stroudsburg, Pennsylvania USA
LOL
It goes both ways sometimes. I dont have sexpectations on a 1st date.perhaps you could add that.Have no sexpectations on first date to your profile:OThat might help.Be who you are a write what you expect.
Riderrrrr



Wakiela Levittown, Pennsylvania USA
Kudos to you, you seem like you'll find whom your looking for. Peacecheering



Wakiela Levittown, Pennsylvania USA
Thats Kudos commet was for bill lol can ya tell I'm a newborn at this forum stuff? <snicker>



Wakiela Levittown, Pennsylvania USA
to THATPLAYER: Divorce happened in 2005.........................tongue



Wakiela Levittown, Pennsylvania USA
to Securerq: Guess there are the same types in both sexes.



Wakiela Levittown, Pennsylvania USA
to Nesara: I believe I have on that profile somewhere about respect....... that should be sufficiant.

Thanks wave
somedude1962 bensalem, Pennsylvania USA
Look don't take this the wrong way ok???Honestly how long did it take you to tell everyone who reads this how attractive you are.You did not use the word pretty eather-- No you put Verry in front as well.Did you not????--So im correct --Now think what part of you is verry attractive(as you so well pionted out)Were you talking about your sole--No Rite?--You were talking about your BODY!!!And a womans body is sexual!!!!If you are not humble enough--To not be aware of your own sexuality--Then how do you expect a Man to be????If you are so SHURE of your own Attractiveness-Then how do you expect not to project that to a man--If your so not interested in a guy trying to get in your velvet thighs -then befor your first meet (wether he see's a pic. of U or not)Tell him your Ugly--Then when he meets you -trust me he will get the hint.And you have my word he won't try too sleep with you.But sadly your way to full of your self to ever say your Ugly to anyone--Arn't YA???rolling on the floor laughing
mimitam middleburg, Pennsylvania USA
I HEAR THAT! It's like that in Snyder County ALSO!
Cathy0519: Hello out there, My name is Cathy and I am going through a divorce. This scene is so new to me that it is disgusting. I am a very attractive woman but everytime I meet someone when I say no to sex on the first date that is the end of hearing from them. What is the problem here. Are there any good guys near Glenside, PA who are not like that? If so please contact me.
ChelseaN2010 Natrona Heights, Pennsylvania USA
In response to: Hello out there, My name is Cathy and I am going through a divorce. This scene is so new to me that it is disgusting. I am a very attractive woman but everytime I meet someone when I say no to sex on the first date that is the end of hearing from them. What is the problem here. Are there any good guys near Glenside, PA who are not like that? If so please contact me.

Cathy I am searching for the same thing..is it really that much to ask for a guy who can respect a woman every once in a while? It's sort of depressing to me, because I am young, to know that even the older men arent always more mature :(
Lostfantasy State College, Pennsylvania USA
Trust me they do exist cause im one that actually treats girls with respect and suprisingly it doesn't work the way it should. The phrase nice guys finish last still holds quite true.




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