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How come when a girl has sex she is a Hoe or whore, but when a guy has sex hes like the sh** or a cool person in his friends eyes. Im FAR from a hoe/whore but to me sex is just a way of life. I don't just jump in bed with anyone I have to be in a relation ship or a FWB thing but if I break that off and get another boyfriend Im called a hoe for sleeping with him..WTH can anyone explin this to me please! and have another while your at it lol

Its been like that since the dawn of time (or at least since I was coming up LOL). I remember my grandmother saying "now don't sit on their laps". I guess she was implying that it would set a guy off and it would be my fault. I remember thinking to myself "How stupid, aren't we higher than the animals?"
Hmmmmm I wonder

I soo know what your talking about..but isnt sex just a part of life?? lol. but dont get me wrong i dont sleep with all of the guys that look at me eaither lol..but i know where ur coming from!

I may be the only guy in the world that thinks this way, but I agree with what you all are saying, really. I don't think of anyone as a hoe, whore, slut, etc... and if I did I think I know more guys sluts than I do girls!!! But the fact is, people will never change their ethics on this, sadly. Who cares what people think ya know, let em talk. Anyway, just wanted to let you know all guys don't see girls that way...

Wildchick, here's my opinion, which I've had many years on this subject.

Most men are stronger than women. In presocietal times, the man just took who he wanted.

In today's society, a man would be charged with rape for forcing a woman to have sex with him.

Therefore, in today's society, unless a man tries to rape a woman, he's in legal trouble.

In today's society, most women decide whether sex will be had. Short of rape, the woman decides. If the woman likes sex to the point that she likes to have it a lot, she's labeled a whore, a term I disagree with.

If a man is desirable to a woman (and I believe women are turned on just as much by men by attractiveness as women are) the man's considered a stud.