hopefloats: Yes, this site DOES work! My husband and I met right here on it. Best wishes in your search.
Yes, and me, too: what Merky said!

If you have your ducks in a row and know who/what you're looking for, then CS can indeed work for you, Ninenis! Me and Don (The Kansan) met here on 1/3/07, and married on 8/15/07! We are incredibly happy and feeling quite blessed to be a successful CS couple!
Best to you, and wishing you all the luck that others have found here!
Jackie (& Don)