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i look for honesty, a sense of humor and to be treated with respect . 44yr

I am looking for a honest open minded man. One that is willing to treat a lady the way they are meant to be treated, and in return the man should be treated as a gentleman should be treated. I am 36 years old and proud of it.

ALL WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT ALL OF US SO WE WANT DIFFERENT THINGS. LOOK INYO HER EYES YOU CAN READ ALOT. WHEN SHE SPEAKS LISTEN. HOLD HER CLOSE EVEN WHEN SHES MAD, DONT WALK AWAY FROM A FIGHT, NEVER GO TO BED ANGRY, HOLD HER HAND IN PUBLIC, BUY HER SURPRISES LIKE LITTLE CARDS, CALL HER JUST TO SAY I LOVE YOU, RUB HER FEET AFTER A HARD DAY, HAVE LAUGHS, HELP OUT, THATS WHAT MOST WOMEN WANT

I want someone who takes pride in his job, his appearance, and his manners, and who isn't afraid of new things or of looking silly. 27 yrs old.

Wow, so much wisdom for such a young lady! I mean no offense. You are exactly right. It is how you respond to the everyday things that make or break a relationship! "How much are your relationships worth?"

I'm a movie-holic, if that's a word ). I also like walking on the trails at Iams Park. I look like I'm 21, even though I'm 36--still get carded ). I also enjoy magic, 70's and 80's music, and animals (a dog and eight cats). I'm a student (I know-boring), getting my Ph.D. in Business Administration. I'd like to find a woman who can be silly and laugh a lot but also has a serious side. I'm a one-woman man. I don't cheat. Being faithful is very important to me. And I'm looking for a woman who accepts me for me as I would do in return. I'm not perfect, by any means, but I try to be the best person I can. I'm pretty relaxed about things. I like life to just flow along with some splashes here and there. Sometimes, splashes can be the most fun! Hope to hear from ya! Josh

I just turned 50 yrs old. I first want to say "thank you" for caring what we want! That is a big plus, simply because it let's us know a little about you, that you're not all about self.

Here's my 2 cents:

Personally, I think the world in general has relationships backwards. Instead of each partner always thinking about "my" needs... their own wishes, and clashing together trying to make sure one doesn't get over on the other, I think it should be like the following:

Each person always sincerely caring & thinking of the other person first, trying to fulfill their needs, etc.and make them happy, being a giver more than a taker....then guess what? Both have their needs met and it stirs up such a closeness and keeps the love alive knowing each partner is more concerned about the other's happiness, that you can't go wrong that way. Two "givers" can never outgive each other, but it promotes a depth of love that few know and it has no limits. I believe the heights it can reach are undiscovered, & probably has no end. Think about it. (smile)
(I think both people knowing and loving God is the only way it can be done.)

* That's what I look for in a man....."a giver, and a heart that has a true relationship with God", because if that part is right, everything else "can" work out.(His back is covered because I'm a giver.) After all, God's the inventor of relationships and intimacy between two people. HE made it to be exciting,beautiful, and fulfilling.
I enjoy giving SOoooo much more than receiving! But so far, I've not ran across a man of God who is a giver, and we're also compatible in other ways. But I'm still looking. (smile)