Charli15695: If she has no emotions about your pending divorce...it was not really there to begin with...she had other reasons for marrying you - consider yourself lucky and move on. Living well is the best revenge...good luck.

Charli is wise. Listen to her. My ex after seven years looked relieved of the obligation. That hurt but after a few months I was releived myself. It hadn't been there in a while and I just didn't take the time to notice it.