integrity82: greetings to Texas ladies
yeah, you said right things. just i often rush at conclusions, too fast to hurt or say some wrong things and i start thinking i that I DO NOT THINK at all. and i either lack experience in communication or i am blunt. i am afraid i just ruined a relationship with a person and do not if everything will be the same as it was
Thank you. Greetings to you, lovely and concerned Lady!
My personal beliefs are...if someone is that easy to run off, they are not worth keeping. I have a new saying I am using now that I read today...
"If you can’t handle someone at their worst,
You don’t deserve them at their best."
If you lost this person due to communication challenges, please, do not feel badly that they cannot accept your mistakes. Know that the people that are most loving and supportive will wonder first if they misunderstood and they will ask for clarification. Often they will dismiss many apparently negative things because they just have all that much personal growth of their own that they can look at others and say to themselves, I used to be like that.
Try to not beat yourself up. There are already plenty of people out there willing to do that FOR you. Instead, maybe being more forgiving and understanding of yourself would attract more forgiving people to you. Then just work on getting better at communicating. Make it a goal. Reward yourself when you do well and forgive yourself and learn from the mistakes you make.