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Loving, knowing that you are going to get hurt is like living knowing that you are going to die. But not loving so you don't get hurt is like killing yourself before you die."

OMG... that is sooo true! Its kinda ironic that you make yourself miserable to keep from being miserable... Thanks for the post. It has been kinda boring in the Texas forums. By the way, I am Carla.

"Great rewards come from great risks" Or something like that.

You seem like pretty romantic person. I think when you realize that you have to love yourself first and foremost. Then you can truely love someone else.

I am in my 40's and I think I have only just begun to realize that I really need someone more than just to have someone. I need someone to share my life with...life is short.

I believe you are 29? You still have time. Find what you want. Date so you can find out what you don't want. Find someone kind, supportive, similar outlook, and someone who can't wait to see and be with you for all the right reason....

Yes I totally understand. I feel like I am dying too. Then I realize that it is All preparation for the Crazy Love.

The longer you go without the more Joy there will be when you find it. Imagine that...boo hoo....

Glad some guys feel the same way. Too bad you are not in my age range.

BTW, Not that I have even been remotely close at all. I imagine that you have to try and of course if it worked out with everybody then we would all be with everybody...right. Keep looking! or Pray as they tell me todo. I have not been praying enough or it is just not my time.

Take care,

BETTER TO HAVE LOVED AND LOST THAN TO LIVE WITH THE PSYCHO FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE-HA

while loosing a love can be devastating, the feelings that you feel while in a loving relationship can not be compared to anything else.
been there done that

you nailed it right on target...its how i feel right now...so very true..
thanks for the post
Angie

Hey fiddu, Loving is a very hard thing to do and to find as will. Some say it takes a lot of getting hurt before you find that true love. I like to belive that not loving some doesn't kill you before you die. I haven't loved some over a yr now and I don't fell its killing me. Its gave me the freedom to do as I please to do. That is something I haven't had in the last 12 yr of my life.
I have my kids to love and my family, I feel thats all I need now in my life. Yes one day I hope I find true love, but until then I'm happy being single.

Cathie

I like what you said. It's like waiting to die and once you are there, regretting not living a more full life. Pain is unavoidable, but lonliness is unneccessary.

Alternating roles to yield the most intense results as this develops the dynamic of master and slave within. As within, so without. This mirroring between interior and exterior culminates in an orgasm of transcendance in which one is no longer defined by the limitations of an either/or neither/nor universe.