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I need to know. why do i get stuck with the psycho chicks. not saying everyone i talk to or meet is but my last ex takes the cake so far. she is coo coo and her new bf is really messed up to. let me ask do you act like someones friend just to break them up and take there gal? This little boy for the lack of a better word did exactly that and now he keeps harassing me. What am I suppose to do? He wont leave me alone and I have severe PTSD from being deployed to Iraq multiple times. I dont wanna end up hurting him alot but I dont know what i am suppose to do. I mean he is as nutty as her and I am afraid that if he doesnt stop talking crap to me ill send him to the hospital. I have told him to leave me alone and grow up but that doesnt seem to get thru his thick skull and the funniest thing is he actually thinks he stands a chance in a fight with me. I maybe injured but I still know what I am capable of. I just dont wanna do that. What should I do? I need advice. and anyone wanna tell me why are so many women or the ones i mainly meet are as fruity as a fruitcake if not fruitier then one.

Avoid, avoid, avoid. If he calls you and you have caller ID and see that he's trying to call you . . . just don't pick up the phone. If he comes to your house, don't answer the door. If he's destructive to your property, call the cops. If he's harassing you to the point that you think you're about to lose your sanity, have a restraining order put against him.
As far as you meeting crazy girls, perhaps you don't screen your gfs well enough. By screening I mean picking up on signs of mental instability or realizing that their negative personality traits out weigh the good. As sad as it is to say, some people just attract the crazies. :p

Could not have said it better.

You're not the only one that gets them. Just stay away from them and try your best to move along. (And if it's actual harrassment, you can get a restraining order.) Take it day by day and try to enjoy not hving to deal with her ALL the time. Good Luck!

yeah i tend to get the psycho chicks to, so I just really keep to myself and whatever happens happens. sometimes people have to learn the hard way.... sounds like he is one of those people... youve asked him repeatedly to leave you alone, so in this case you can say, ''cant say you I didnt warn you'' and do something about it if he continues to do it. give him one more chance, if he doesnt stop make it stop....

my bad *cant say I didnt warn you*

never heard of such thing, do you know the girl awhile before she shows her craziness ?

Sorry, my friend. Sometimes it works in reverse, too. I've had enough psychos (the really bad kind), to become a psychobitch, myself. After a while, it's possible to work one's way out of it, and become normal. My natural inclination is to be kind, warm, playful, considerate, live and let live. After a round with some jerk I become cynical, distrusting, snide and couldn't care less about what I say, or do.

I've done the world a favor and tried to keep it to myself, this time. I'm just coming out of it and regaining my equilibrium.

Do yourself a favor, get some distance in a hurry. I've also had to deal with PTSD. Two years of therapy and made sure I felt "safe" for a while. Learn the signs of instability and make sure you know where the exit is located. Better yet, anytime you think, "That doesn't make sense." Use the exit. Pretty soon, you'll identify the fruitcakes and pass 'em on to the next person, just like everyone else.

Good Luck and Best Wishes!