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I was wondering the same thng myself. Alot of guys online are perverts or married. Worse yet...alot are married perverts who need to gt a life. I think I have just about gave up on finding that perfect guy.

That's exactly the problem. If perfection is what you seek, you will never find it! Nobody's perfect.

Hi, I'm Jim.
and yes it sure seems that way, but I refuse to let myself believe that all the good one's are taken. I know that somewhere out there is a woman for me. I think that some times we that feel all the good ones are taken may just be too pickey and forget that everyone is human and none of us are perfect, even if somewhere deep inside our minds "without knowing it" we're looking for perfection, but in our hearts we're settle for what feels good or right for something that eases the pain for now. as for me I know what you mean as I just want "ONE" woman that can be the center of my life, the only deal breaker is that she has to know what monogamy means, and today I don't think many people know that meanning.

Perfect, or perfect for you? There are plenty of guys out there just like there are plenty of women out there. The trick is sifting through the crud to get to the diamond. You'll find someone someday when you least expect it.

It seems that all the good people are taken because when you have a good person in your life you want to abuse that person by listening to others on how and what they would do if it was them in your place until it is too late. Then you realize that those people who you were listening to was in or get into a simular or worse relationship and they don't do anything that they advised you to do in yours?
By then the good one you lost, has long gone with someone else doing real good things that you could of been a part of.
So in closing I leave you with this thought!!

It is not about the good people that is gone. It is about what you are going to do about keeping that good man or woman when they present themself into your life again?

I'm a pretty down to earth guy and I would be all about meeting someone sweet and honest..but none of the chics on line give me the time of day. O well..

Personally I have found that I treat women much better than they do me. I don't know, I guess I spoil them. I am sure that I am not the only guy around that does as such. Over the last few months I have purchased a total of a few dozen roses for a woman back in New York. They were often met with a extreme high followed by normality. Just keep looking, I am sure you will find someone. For me, the problem is knowing how to meet women. Perhaps attending a college that is roughly 80% male has something to do with that.

well not all of us are taken

chris ... it's 11:34 AM ....

You have a hard time because you trying to hard. Lovers are like set of keys, you find it when you not looking. Second reason is psychological *If he is taken, he must be good*
I came to realize that any dating website is a waste of time. You have more chance on a random hook up site because primary intention is a hook up and not LTR. If you have a general preconception to find "THE ONE" it changes your attitude toward opposite sex. You always scan and reject. Rejecting becomes more easy every time until you do nothing but reject. I'm not talking only about women, I do the same thing and I think the logical, compatible percentage of women I can consider has declined drastically over last two years. Reason being your standards rise instead of declining. My advice is to stop looking and I wish I could listen to my own advice.

I find the same thing & a lot of times they are too good for the ones they are with..... I know ladies who are in an abusive relationships & ask myself why they stay or go back to them. Man what I would give for some of these ladies.. Maybe that's for another thread..Getting on w/this 1.... That does not make us bad people just because we are single...Maybe we choose not to settle just because we are alone, so hang in there & have fun lookin.....The right 1 will come along , at least that is what I keep tellin myself...

It is not too much to ask. There are a half a billion men out there , one is bound to be worth his weight in salt.



Dennis

I wouldn't say that all good people are taken.
However, I would say that a lot of the good people are involved in relationships in which they are treated like cr**.

Hi Becky,
I search for your profile. Well, I'm also looking for that special lady. All the good men are not taken but it's hard to finally meet the right person. Would you like to know more about me? Please email me. Thank you

It would probably be easier if you messaged her directly.

I'm from NY State.On CS for a year and wondering about VA women ?Do they all have their nose in the air.Some of NYker's (DAM YANKEES)LOL still know how to treat a good women.If there is one ?????LOL
Jerry

Cuz they are. I'm not though :D

What really hurts my feelings is when that one guy comes along and everything seems just what your looking for and all of a sudden he disappears from the face of the earth when he is told that you have 3 grandchildren! They have nothing to do with my relationship! They don't need his money! He's not here to babysit! Maybe it's a good thing,who wants a man that can't accept your family!

itll come jus takes time there r millions of guys n the world tht wuld want u