My last date

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ooby_dooby Ashland, Virginia USA
I met this lady through an ad I placed on "Freecycle" looking for wine bottles (I make wine Merlot, Sangiovese, Tenet etc). Anyway one thing led to another and we continued to email each other when one Friday night she must have been bored and IM'd me. I met her at a nice little Italian restaurant and we shared a pizza (I paid the bill and even offered her 10 bucks to get through the following week as she was quite broke) and agreed to meet next weekend when she would reciprcate by picking up the tab. A week went by with no contact from her so I sent her an IM saying I enjoyed our dinner and her company and when can we get together again. Another week goes by with no contact so I send her another IM asking her who did she expect George Clooney or Mel Gibson? That was several weeks ago and still nothing!
Do women think they have some inate right to treat men like a piece of firewood or a doorstop and just totally ignore them instead of taking 5 minutes to say "hey you don't float my boat so I'm outta here"? Ive had dates with women who I was not the least bit attracted to and I made the effort (it's never pleasant) to inform them so.



chrisc79 Suffolk, Virginia USA
Maybe it could be her.. I have no idea..but I know that I have talked to so many lady's on the net! I dont want to throw a round about number out there but out of a lot i've actually met one. We still talk now as friends but we werent..well what everyones looking for.
I talk to lady's/chics..whatev i really dont know what name to call that you or anyone else on here would relate too. Anyway we talk on the phone for thirty minutes an hour and i think everythings cool and all..then well we hang up and i have my hopes up and never a call back like promised or I call and things are totally different.
I blame it on the net thing..thinking everyone is just on here for just something to do or just for games.
Then there's my friend that gets dates off the net left and right! Maybe I just am too real and dont have enough game to keep the attention!
I really try not to let it get to me because i am who i am and i dont plan on ever changing that.. I also try not to take things too seriously!
I'm not sure.. I do know that when I meet people in person say walmart or some of the other places that i've met people has been a lot more real and I think I'll just stick with that type of meeting!
Apocal Alexandria, Virginia USA
Sometimes it seems as though they don't take the time. It annoys me when I take the time to compose my thoughts through an email or other other means and do not get a response. It isn't too much trouble for them to say "I got the message", but sometimes they just don't respond.




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