I have to agree with several things on this post.
There's gotta be someone out there. People keep finding them, but just not us yet.
I keep having trouble with just my location. Being on the Kitsap Penninsula is a great hindrance. Most people are Seattle metro or south. Have met some great ladies, but they're just too far away to meet for coffee without serious planning as it would be an all day trip.
So I know how you feel. I empathize completely. I'm hoping to find someone, someday.