Just wondering........

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citygirl1982 Summersville, West Virginia USA
Tue Jan 6, 2009 5:29 PM CST : Just wondering........
I am relatively new here (about 6 months in) and I have a question. Hopefully someone can answer it for me.

Why is it when a gal talks to someone and they seem to be hitting it off and she mentions that she is not a barbie sized lady, well that is it? Big gals need love too.

This has happened to me many times. I don't understand. I have hit it off through emails and phone conversations and when I mention being voluptious, they blow me off. I am not that way. Someones size does not matter to me; it's the inner handsomeness. Where are the bbw lovers at???? frustrated I hope someone can shed some light on this for me. Thanks.
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hopefloats67 Williamstown, West Virginia USA
Thu Jan 8, 2009 8:37 PM CST : Just wondering........
Because men are living in a little fantasy world. The think that Barbie Doll is alive and well and waiting for their advances. Take it from another Voluptious and proud of it, take your time, and sometimes it takes a while but someone will come along that wants the whole package. You might notice that these so call men who want Barbie aren't the biggest prize in the cracker jack box......
peace
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Shirley49WV Mason Co, West Virginia USA
Mon Jan 12, 2009 4:52 PM CST : Just wondering........
hopefloats67: Because men are living in a little fantasy world. The think that Barbie Doll is alive and well and waiting for their advances. Take it from another Voluptious and proud of it, take your time, and sometimes it takes a while but someone will come along that wants the whole package. You might notice that these so call men who want Barbie aren't the biggest prize in the cracker jack box......


I'm with you ladies as well. I think at times men are afraid of what their friends might think. Yes I know it is stupid, I've had some admit that when having chats at work about this subject.
I've also noticed that some of the men on here. Has petite, small, athletic marked on their profile(as for what they are looking for) have a beer belly or larger themselves.
It all comes down to we all have attractions. What attracts one does not another. I'm just waiting on the man that sees me as a person and not by the size.
Good luck to you ladies!
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citygirl1982 Summersville, West Virginia USA
Mon Jan 12, 2009 8:29 PM CST : Just wondering........
After reading the replys to my post, I must say I agree with both of you. The men here are looking for the skinny, shallow Barbie dolls. You're right, they are afraid of what their friends will say and think. A man's ego dunno . Oh well, like you say someday someone will come along who wants the total package...and that is exactly what us voluptious beauties are.
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hedistuff sand fork, West Virginia USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 12:54 AM CST : Just wondering........
Now, how could you think that I wouldn't chime in on this? To two of my too many ex-wives, each of which was, to use your word, voluptious; I answered, yes, when they proposed to me.
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hedistuff sand fork, West Virginia USA
Tue Jan 13, 2009 12:58 AM CST : Just wondering........
And we were wed.
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