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workwell dublin, Dublin Ireland
Mon Jul 6, 2009 10:47 AM CST : to sleep with someone its a decision between two people so the word ur a user is totally wrong.post
to sleep with someone its a decision between two people so the word ur a user is totally wrong.post comments pleasehandshake
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gorrestfump portlaoise, Leix Ireland
Mon Jul 6, 2009 10:49 AM CST : to sleep with someone its a decision between two people so the word ur a user is totally wrong.post
workwell: to sleep with someone its a decision between two people so the word ur a user is totally wrong.post comments please


no comments needed man.. i agree with ya..thumbs up
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pippybc carrick on shannon, Leitrim Ireland
Mon Jul 6, 2009 10:50 AM CST : to sleep with someone its a decision between two people so the word ur a user is totally wrong.post
yes i agree your both adults act like it!!!!
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funkydelly Kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland
Mon Jul 6, 2009 10:53 AM CST : to sleep with someone its a decision between two people so the word ur a user is totally wrong.post
gorrestfump: no comments needed man.. i agree with ya..
I would say I agree wit some of it but I think if you sleep wit somebody and then have nothing to do wit them afterwards it is using them for sex. .
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gorrestfump portlaoise, Leix Ireland
Mon Jul 6, 2009 10:56 AM CST : to sleep with someone its a decision between two people so the word ur a user is totally wrong.post
funkydelly: I would say I agree wit some of it but I think if you sleep wit somebody and then have nothing to do wit them afterwards it is using them for sex. .


not necessarily....

maybe the person felt they made a mistake... maybe the sex was bad..

plus.. the point the OP is making, is that if two people agree to have sex, then its a mutual decision..
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workwell dublin, Dublin Ireland
Mon Jul 6, 2009 10:56 AM CST : to sleep with someone its a decision between two people so the word ur a user is totally wrong.post
but thats what happens in the moment hun were u impressed with dublin hunpeace
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funkydelly Kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland
Mon Jul 6, 2009 11:09 AM CST : to sleep with someone its a decision between two people so the word ur a user is totally wrong.post
gorrestfump: not necessarily....

maybe the person felt they made a mistake... maybe the sex was bad..

plus.. the point the OP is making, is that if two people agree to have sex, then its a mutual decision..
I know wat de OP is saying but i'm just saying in fairness it is using somebody to have sex. Be it what ever the outturn if you have sex with somebody and don't ever call that is wat it is. Not saying it's a bad thing and I don't agree with calling somebody a user because there was after all two people involved in it.
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action_man athlone, Westmeath Ireland
Mon Jul 6, 2009 11:11 AM CST : to sleep with someone its a decision between two people so the word ur a user is totally wrong.post
workwell: to sleep with someone its a decision between two people so the word ur a user is totally wrong.post comments please



true once no ones bein led on!!!scold
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tgwstw Cork, Cork Ireland
Mon Jul 6, 2009 11:54 AM CST : to sleep with someone its a decision between two people so the word ur a user is totally wrong.post
Yup, I agree.
But there are those who fuck and flee but it's the nature of the beast and you take the risk.

I do think it's a joint choice.
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paphos dublin, Dublin Ireland
Mon Jul 6, 2009 3:38 PM CST : to sleep with someone its a decision between two people so the word ur a user is totally wrong.post
workwell: to sleep with someone its a decision between two people so the word ur a user is totally wrong.post comments please


Yes, it is a decision between two people and each is responsible for their own choice. However, this decision has to be made knowing all the facts and if one person changes the facts after the event, then it is not so simplistic.... uh oh
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ladylumps Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Mon Jul 6, 2009 3:47 PM CST : to sleep with someone its a decision between two people so the word ur a user is totally wrong.post
Well I think if both parties knew before hand that it was just a one night stand then thats fine but if either of the parties involved implied that it might be the start of something just to get their jollies then its not very fair if they knew they wouldnt answer a call or a tx from the other person the next day then that is using. If it was a hump and dump then at least the parties involved should be honest about it and say it up front. jmo
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ladylumps Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Mon Jul 6, 2009 3:49 PM CST : to sleep with someone its a decision between two people so the word ur a user is totally wrong.post
Yes, it is a decision between two people and each is responsible for their own choice. However, this decision has to be made knowing all the facts and if one person changes the facts after the event, then it is not so simplistic....[/ quote]

yip agree with you there girl thumbs up you cant change the rules to suit yourself
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workwell dublin, Dublin Ireland
Mon Jul 6, 2009 3:55 PM CST : to sleep with someone its a decision between two people so the word ur a user is totally wrong.post
totally agree but there no rules when u sleep toghter.its a choice between two adults.sad flower
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bluebelle4000 dublin, Meath Ireland
Mon Jul 6, 2009 3:58 PM CST : to sleep with someone its a decision between two people so the word ur a user is totally wrong.post
workwell: totally agree but there no rules when u sleep toghter.its a choice between two adults.


Well it depends.... as LL sais it depends if someone feeds you a load of crap in order to get you into bed then no its wrong.. if you know up front that its a one night stand than cool its a decision between 2.... JMO !!
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tallaght_guy dublin, Dublin Ireland
Mon Jul 6, 2009 3:58 PM CST : to sleep with someone its a decision between two people so the word ur a user is totally wrong.post
you only a user if you give false pretensions , as in you realy like them interested in getting know them better then after you sleep with them dont want to know them
jmo
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rahenygirl Dublin-Carlow, Dublin Ireland
Mon Jul 6, 2009 4:01 PM CST : to sleep with someone its a decision between two people so the word ur a user is totally wrong.post
workwell: to sleep with someone its a decision between two people so the word ur a user is totally wrong.post comments please


Yes i agree its a decision between to consenting adults but how ever if 1 is being deceived that it's more than just sex to get them into bed then yes i would call them user's....jmo
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rahenygirl Dublin-Carlow, Dublin Ireland
Mon Jul 6, 2009 4:02 PM CST : to sleep with someone its a decision between two people so the word ur a user is totally wrong.post
tallaght_guy: you only a user if you give false pretensions , as in you realy like them interested in getting know them better then after you sleep with them dont want to know them
jmo
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And this happens alot never hard too watch as knocks peeps self-esteem very bad,
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ladylumps Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Mon Jul 6, 2009 4:03 PM CST : to sleep with someone its a decision between two people so the word ur a user is totally wrong.post
rahenygirl: Yes i agree its a decision between to consenting adults but how ever if 1 is being deceived that it's more than just sex to get them into bed then yes i would call them user's....jmo



thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
and this can apply to both men and women !!!
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tallaght_guy dublin, Dublin Ireland
Mon Jul 6, 2009 4:04 PM CST : to sleep with someone its a decision between two people so the word ur a user is totally wrong.post
yeah i agree other side of coin though you sleep with them then want to move on for whatever reason and much harder to break up
rahenygirl: And this happens alot never hard too watch as knocks peeps self-esteem very bad,
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rahenygirl Dublin-Carlow, Dublin Ireland
Mon Jul 6, 2009 4:07 PM CST : to sleep with someone its a decision between two people so the word ur a user is totally wrong.post
ladylumps: and this can apply to both men and women !!!


Most definitely...thumbs up
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