Posted: Jun 25, 2008, 5:03 PM CST
irishlass45 wrote:I have been a member for less than a year, i came on as a single and am now semi involved, what i mean is i met somebody, no not on this site but that would not matter in this sit. I have heard it asked, why do people come on here if they are not single? well i am one of those ones that needs to answer. Since this is online there are no guarantees with online relationships and when somebody meets somebody and they want to start a relationship where does that leave one? well inbetween committed and not committed, to certain points. In the meantime i am not giving up my friends and i see others doing the same, comming here after being either semi involved or even married, would miss out on good friends, like i said online is not in cement you know? what is your take on this?
each one knows what feelings he/she has for the partner they meet on line
both knows what are your real life
i dont see any reazon that becuase some one is e-engaged he/she cannot stay here
i know a "couple" (from othe site) they have been e-engaged for hald an year, and they got e-married a few weeks ago
but to my surpeice, she is in this site loking, she has an active profile here
should it be called e-cheating?
whle people in our eage sometings are not so important, we have to consider what could happen with people in their 20-30
what if after they get e-married, she gets e-pregnant?
and what will happen to the e-baby if later the e-dad decide to do his life with a real women
where wil they get the e-divorce? and the e-childsupport?
but if some one is in real life incvolved and had made friends here, i belive he/she can continue in contact with their friends by regular e-mail
and if there is not enought trust as to disclos the regular e-mail, then thei are not real friends, just e-friends where they don trust each other