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yeah

and the c was for crawford but i was to out of breath to finish it back then

i do call her super woman to cause when she gets a puncture shes off flying around the room

Ya just gotta love these guys!!



Minx!

But it's soooooooooo sad Mrwright

You do come out with some good ones Mr Right

u put a bag over there head keiro

That's 100% right. If physical attraction and sex weren't so centrally important to everything, we'd probably be better off having a sexless marriage with our best friend of the same sex who would probably have the added bonus of being way easier to get along with (at least during the Sunday game)!

We all like to think of ourselves as nice, civilzed people, but what resonates in the head, doesn't usually harmonize with the crotch!

It's never nice to have to break that kind of news to someone, so it's better to just say up front that you find that there isn't any chemistry there.

That's about as nice as it can get and also as nice as you should have to be. Anything further and you are wasting yourself on trying to be too nice. Ironically, this kind of nice behaviour is what seems to attract the kind of woman that you say you're not looking for in the first place.

A mans attraction is immediatley based on how she looks, curves.
A wise woman ensures that next there is an emotional attraction THEN a sexual attraction, but alot of ladies make that mistake by sending those pictures we all love:P

Now alot of people will disagree with me when I say

If she's not your type, she'll make a good friend.

Its a woman who is attracted to the over all personality (looks are important but don't carry so much weight as it does for us guys)

You are attracted at first to how she looks, don't kid the both of you and string her along, or "try to fall in love with her personality" as someone might suggest. Take her as a friend, maybe one of your friends will find her attractive.

Sine when is attraction a choice anyway?

Hope this helped as much as it should have-
Azztech

I meant to say curves etc. You get the point...

Respect your opinion but dont agree with you on a couple of point - if in my eyes hes been hit with the ugly stick - forget it, personality is not going to wallpaper that - I need to look at the mantlepiece to want to get close to the poker

If shes not your type - you probably dont have much in common and wont make good friends (type?)


Sine when is attraction a choice anyway? its all chemistry and out of our hands

Omg mrwright.. I just swooned!!!!

this is why I swooned!....

Ok for some reason it won't let me quote back.. but you had me on the slap on the arse ;)

Oh no, it's not an opinion, it's science...

I said looks matter, just not as much as it does for us.

Read The Mating Mind by Geoffrey Miller.

I say tell them as soon as you feel you arn't attracted. I went out with somone not too long ago...and it was ok..He was nice, but just wasn't sure....and it woulda helped if he said what he felt. It just didn't go anywhere. And not sure if he wasn't attracted to me or what...but I decided after kinda getting to know him that he wasn't my cup of tea...I think if he wasn't attracted to me...the long date we had, could have been cut much shorter and I could have spent my day more constructivly....I know that sounds rude.., but don't kid yourself. You might not be as important as you think you are. She might have other things she could be doing besides spending time with someone who isn't attracted to her. If you like her..make a friend of her, but say it as soon as you feel it...don't delay.

You worry me - r you one of them scinetologyist ones?
Don't beleive in it, have the university of life on my side.
Books do not tell me what I think, I make up my own mind


would you like a little science experiment - Want a night out we can look at the opposite sex and rate how much it does for us on a scale of 1-10


1 = won't bother to look again
10 = cum in my pants/creamed my knickers


where you living, the new bike needs a run out to get the motor ticking over nicely