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it works both ways just like in life you gain and lose friends but the good ones will stay with ya finding facebook a good way of cathcing up with old friends

etc.. in search of my princess and alas bla blah bla...
Like flying my helicopter at weekends and driving my porsch....etc

Sorry missspecial its PORSCHE you forgot the E i know spelling

I WROTE THAT AND I DELIBERATELY MISSPELT IT

lancomegirl

Yeah yeah we all Believe you or is it Beleive you hahaha


Perfection is not all its cracked up to be

.....a lad goes up to a house and asks the man if there are any 'odd jobs' he can do for cash. the guy says- 'ok, you can paint my porch for €50'
so the lad gets the paint and comes back an hour later and says....' i'm all done and ready for my money. And by the way, that's not a porsche it's a BMW'!!

You're right there, I do need a filofax!!!

Welcome back PT, missed your post's and your presence here!

I think in the main I have been lucky here. I met one aggressive man who I just blocked.

One or two have asked me what position I like, I actually told one guy and now I'm dating him!!

True!

Once a guy knows, I am dating, I generally don't hear from them again, except the genuine guys that are on this site and they do exist.

None of us is perfect, we all have our faults, it's how we manage them is the key to being a happy human!

Bullshiter's you can spot a mile off, just block the bugger's!



Minx!

Ooops....you found Patrick....sorry

SEX TALK...

it's so repetitive and borrrrrrrrrrrring!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

As in, "those that talk, don't know, and those that know, don't talk"

I agree , some of the people on the forums think they own CS , its actually funny!! Imagine taking offence at something a complete stranger says on the forums, lol..

I know and I still talk about it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

turnoffs:

when they...

tell u they are going for a shower
dont ever contribute to a thread
cant spell (typos dont count)
put up a pic of someone else
are interested in a v broad age group of women
send u pornographic content
simply are pigs

to name a few

ah...

i send a brief one (not a one liner) initially and prefer to receive the same because i think its presumptuous to assume that the other person wants to read an essay from you - they might not want to know you and its polite to just send a few lines at first i think or some people just flower initially instead.

as in Patrick its like as if there's one script and everyman learns it..

so wen u hear it over and over it jus becomes repeditive and boring

the man that doesnt feel the need to go on and on about sex wud b the one who'd get my heart

Seems i have not learned the script, mind you i do write scripts everyday! If only life was as simple!

[quote=missspecial]What is it about men on dating sites that makes a lot of
them think women are just on one for SEX??..TURN OFF!!
Block button instantly!!

Then you have the guys who are messaging you for MONTHS +
then just STOP...DISAPPEAR!!! No trace,no word,no EXPLAINATION!!

Why bother filling some ladies head with...im a nice,
genuine,honest guy crap if you are doing same to everyone??
What KICK or satisfaction do ye get from it??Thats just SOME of what turns ME off some men on dating site..[/quote

It is a power thing I think-no time or energy to wonder really but some men are so arrogant they want to keep you as a spare in case they get a puncture.
I have become ruthless about it myself-if they say they are going to text/phone/message and don't have the manners to do it I just tell them nicely straight away(no second chances) to piss off and best of luck on the site.That way you don't get cynical about the genuine people,you don't waste time and energy on the messers and you can have a bit of craic-maybe meet someone you like.
Takes some experience to see the assholes coming but the trick is to get rid of them before they get a chance to mess you around and you still have the craic with the good guys-plenty of them around if you don't let the messers waste your time.
This is a good topic by the way