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Why do people lie and play stupid school yard games are they afraid or do they just think they are clever,the worst excuse I have ever heard was,I didnt want to hurt your feelings what a load of *$%* I mean how do people who say that think you feel when you find out the truth,I never lie it just shows no respect.
Sorry for the rant I just found out Ive been lied to and it P@&*"! me off.

we have all been lied to in one form or other and at one time or other if that helps i'm sorry.

Crack you up Man! worst thing of all and the people who do keep doing it all their lives, so much so I now believe that they believe their own lies. Sad! Don't let it get to you just 'cos another person is a sh*t, it hurts but you are still who you are tomorrow and they are still a lying pack of sh*t

and that comming from our sire weren't too humble or subtle there were you sire?

Thanks guys feeing a bit better for that

Welcome,,, just be you and SHE will find you, like i said keep it real and it stays simple, goodnight and sleep tight

Shame on THEM!!! It's horrible and it really hurts, and I empathise totally with you, hope you feel better soonish and know we all i'm fairly sure feel for you

Hi there

its happened to us all and am sorry it happened to you too... it seems honesty is lacking in some people.... keep smiling it will get better

Hi Damo1, it obviously was an important lie for you to feel like you do. Its a real smack in the mouth to find out you have been had and taken for ???. Its happened to me a few times and does dent you pride somewhat.

What i will say though is take pride in the fact that YOU were truthful, that means more than anything.

Keep the chin up and all WILL work out.

I think we have all been there at some stage or another and as long as you know in your heart that you are 100 % honest then you can hold your head up and know that you are better than that person.
Some people live in their own little worlds but remember what goes around comes around.
Chin up hun and put it down to experience.

I don't lie!!

Never did,,

Never will

Thanks a lot guys great support,Ive confronted the person and thats the end of that little drama,got all the usual im sorry it wont happen again
ya right.sorry they got found out

it shouldnt have happened in the first place... well done u for confronting the person and exposing the lies.... it has happened to all of us unfortunatley... take care

if you tell one lie you have to tell 10 more to cover it up, just not work the hassle, so much easier to be honest in the first place,
some people do lie cause they dont want to hurt some one's feeling, but what they dont realise is that the lie hurts more, and then the trust is gone.
there are a lot of spineless, gutless ppl out there, who lie so much they end up believing there own bulls--t,

In my opinion a liar thinks only of himself....people who lie do it for their own personal ends ......and yep they do start to believe their own lies eventually....I know I used to be married to one...

yep me to, for 11 yrs, now i second guess everyone cause of him

Yeah I agree it can leave you with a bit of a problem.....

As my mammy says "Never believe a liar even when he speaks the truth..."
The lies will catch up on them at some point...it's karma, truth is beauty people...

Snap Crystal!!!

In fact, he still believes his own lies!!

Honesty is the only road to walk on through life.........it ain't always an easy one, but it's the only one to be on.

I discovered something recently, which kind of shocked me. I consider myself extremely honest, but someone recently, decided that I couldn't be as honest as I am!! I hadn't encountered that before, hence, was a bit taken aback! However, I feel that said more about him, than it did me!

My experience........lies hurt more than the truth ever will.

Minx

I agree with the "lies do hurt" and without putting a spanner in the works, but personal lies i.e. between a partner or family isnt a good thing, but i do lie from time to time especially to my nieces and godchildren. The SANTA lie, the small little lies we tell to someone without hurting their feelings etc. Im not saying that lies hurt, in fact they do more harm to people emotionally than actual physical harm does, exceptions of course but you know what i mean.

A so called man spread a lie about a man i know saying he was molesting a child in the toilets at a wedding. It was totally WRONG and the accused was working with children at risk at the time. The accused was so hurt that he gave up his work and volunteering, told his partner that he would have to leave the area as so much suspicion was weighing him down.
The accused left the area for 12 months. The person who accused him, withdrew everything and has appollogised in the media and has never came back to the town. The accused was and still is somewhat sore about the whole affair and was able to return to work with the children and people he really sought to help, but it took a long to regain trust and numerous internal investigation completely and totally equited him of everything. he even offered to take lie detector and truth agents to exonorate him.

So when we hear of lies, lets remember, little lie or being economical with the truth isnt the end of the world, but personal and people lies are crinimal and HARM MORE THAN JUST ONE.

jesus was i on a rant there, me fingers are sore typing hahaha.