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why are some people in here so small minded
do people make up there mind on a person based on there photo only befor the speek to them.
i took down my photo due to horrible remarks.

Thats so cruel of people to do that to you but you shouldnt listen to them as they are out to pick on others and no respect for anyone.....

Put your picture back up and piss them off with it.....i cant remember what it was like but it must have been ok for the cs crew to pass it....

Sticks and stones hun...... But it is nice to see the person who posted.... and yes that pic isnt me... people here think i'm too gorgeous to put my pic up

Sorry to hear that but yeah, people do make their decisions that way a lot of the time.

People have remarked on my photo where I am wearing a pink wig...but I am not taking it down - it was fancy dress and a laugh!! haha! Put ur photo up and be proud....screw what anyone says or thinks! If people dont like my photos ...then they can click onto the next person - I am me like it or leave it!

thanks guys
it just kinda knocked me for 6 i guess
i would or could not ever do something like that to anyone.

Nor could I - but some people feel bigger by putting other people down - dont let them win - put your pic up girly! x

thats awful
these people are narrow minded and ignorant ..jmo

Did you consider making a complaint to the moderators about the comments you received (were they on threads/in emails or other messages?

You are who you are, best be happy in your own skin..........

Welcome on board..............

Minx

I know the picture you had up here and it was a lovely happy & friendly face. I really can't for the life of me understand how anyone could have picked anything negative from it. You're a very pretty girl and should stand your ground by keeping it up.
You're not the first to mention such unwelcome remarks to a photo in recent times. Fortunately the nice people on this site far outweigh the few ignoramuses

Hi Happyoutin...you may remember it happened to me too....I got upset cos I was quite confident with how I looked..so it was a shock to get such a negative and nasty reaction to my pic....anyway I took it down too without giving it much thought...I was just reeling from the shock of the attack...however, after lots of lovely people mailed and flowered me and told me it was missed then I thought I will go with the majority and you know what...Im glad I did...cos whatever anyway thinks of me it is me and I make no excuses for it...like it or not, its not really that important its the person inside that counts.....I beg you to do likewise...and I bet it was from someone who has no pic up himself.....sad, pathetic excuse for a human being....

I've got crap over my photos too, do you think i care? never mind these idiots, there is way more real good decent people on here than those who somehow get off on insulting inoffensive people. Stay and see for yourself

listen to what crystal is telling you hun...put your pic back up..no one and i mean NO ONE on here has the right to pass negative comments on anyone's personal pics. your picture was a lovely one....
if they are smarmy again report them...

Don't mind them. They are in the minority and you should put your pics back up and show them they can't put you down.

Put your pic back up don't mind the small minded w****rs. Everyone is entitled to have theire pic on here and if someone doesn't like the way you look well then let them move onto another profile or better still another site.



I do think you should inform the powers that be as it is bullying and were all adults here ( well most of us ) not kids.

thank you all for your lovely comments,flowers,mail
i might just put it back up2 morrow i will sleep on it first
once again thanks all

Minimoo is so right - you are who you are, and be happy and proud!
Beauty can shine through so if people are too shallow or just do not like your pic - ok - next!

Hi guys, looks are immaterial its what people are like deep down is whats important although we are turning into a society that is driven by looks which I think is wrong

Your should put it back up! :)
Nevermind what sad pathetic losers say!
You should be proud of who you are and what ya look like,
ou should rise above it hun by puttin it back,
Cos it shows that u dont care what others think and u shudn't!

Your a legend! and seem likely such a genuine person,
If they can't see you for who u are, then maybe they're the ones who should take down there pics and page...cos they're just sad!

Go you for puttin up this thread!
Screw them.... sticks and stones hun...
There just Sad losers

:)

KEEP SMILING AND THE WORLD SMILES WITH YOU!!

Rob