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Voicemial and texts dont always come through on time and some of my texts havent been recieved at all.

If you make the contact face to face then its not you chasing. Those who just say not to may have had a bad experience or even missed someone that may have been good for them. Its a chance we take.

If you meet him, chat and see how things are. Dont just drop it. Honestly which would you rather, tried and not worked, or leave it and wonder. Even if you are more into him, you'll see this when you get to chat with him FACE TO FACE.

Either way good luck and i really hope it goes well for you.

Best start out as you mean to go on. You invited him to contact you, he didnt. Let it go..

You're just the kindest aren't you :) Most of the guys I know around my age and up would take a similar standpoint to me.

Hmmm...
when u said u were away the following weekend...would he have thought u were trying to give him the brush off?
On the other hand...u did leave him a message saying u had a good time so...
He might be out of practice with dating...shy is a possibility or maybe even one of those guys who is too set in his ways and does not want to change...the fact that he met you though...
You know what I would do, maybe send him a text and say that you hope you see him at the mass and that he is keeping well, and maybe would he like to go for a bite to eat over the weekend. Nothing ventured nothing gained! And sure if he doesn't wb then say hello to him if u run into him at the mass and that's it!

Hmmm well in my opinion most men, and men much older than you play silly games......dont seem too keen sometimes until they think you dont want them.....strange creatures indeed some of them, but youre viewpoint is very refreshing to hear.....

ciotog, I'd love to believe what you say, but in my experience, men do NOT like women who say it as it is!

I scare the bejapers out of most men, because I say it as it is for me!

I wouldn't contact that guy again, if he's into the "cat and mouse chase" girl, he ain't worth your time!

Having said all of that, my guy just loves that I am so clear in my communication abilities!!

Oh Yeah!!



Big smile,

Minx!