Why are Irish guys too shy to approach women? (100)

Oct 29, 2007 5:19 PM CST Why are Irish guys too shy to approach women?
dehain
dehaindehainNear Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK1 Threads 4 Posts
All of the above is true but there are reasons for this. Most genuine Irish guys prefer to weigh up a lady they are interested in and see what they are really like. We may be slow but when we finally see something we like then we approach it in a calmer and less aggresive way than our other home nations hosts!! Also we aint afraid to accept we will get turned down from time to time without all the fuss and slagging off the lady concerned. Respect for women has to be earned and if more guys show better behaviour it wouldnt be so difficult to convince women we are genuine.

Hope it helps you to understand, little tip though if you see a guy looking and you do like him give him a cheeky wink and you will find he won't be too shy!

Take care babe, Dehain
Nov 1, 2007 12:33 PM CST Why are Irish guys too shy to approach women?
eoinly1
eoinly1eoinly1Balbriggan, Dublin Ireland1 Posts
its the 21st century and women are well capable of being the hunter, lots of irish girls will not even have the courtesy to show a pic, reply or have a semi interesting chat until the guys are growing beards and fed up
foreign ladies are more up front and agree that us guys are backward about going forward, so theres a bit of growing up on both sides
encourage and be friendly, after that theres no reason to feel rejected.
go for it
Nov 7, 2007 1:04 AM CST Why are Irish guys too shy to approach women?
stellanova
stellanovastellanovaStockholm, Sweden1 Threads 42 Posts
If you make the first move your self it's up to you how you chose and you don't need to end up with the "arrogant" one..

Get out of your own comfort zone and approach the guy you find interesting, I don't think that even the "shy" irish guys would mind about that at all
Nov 7, 2007 5:50 AM CST Why are Irish guys too shy to approach women?
Fallingman
FallingmanFallingmanDublin, Ireland29 Threads 12 Polls 11,436 Posts
Hi Stella nice to see you wave

I think you are right
Nov 7, 2007 11:14 AM CST Why are Irish guys too shy to approach women?
stellanova
stellanovastellanovaStockholm, Sweden1 Threads 42 Posts
Hi!wave
Nice to see you too!

Yeah, I think so too. If you just wait for some one to come to you, you'll presumably will not end up with the one you want. You'll just get the one how were courageous enough to approach.
Nov 9, 2007 1:43 AM CST Why are Irish guys too shy to approach women?
DustyRose28
DustyRose28DustyRose28marshalltown, Iowa USA79 Threads 1,335 Posts
I like a guy who can approach me, I used to be the one who would make the first move but I have found that guys don't like that all the time so now I let them approach me!cheering wave
Nov 9, 2007 5:08 PM CST Why are Irish guys too shy to approach women?
VinDieselJunior
VinDieselJuniorVinDieselJuniorDublin, Ireland17 Posts
Iv found that a gud way to approach a woman is to first make eye to eye contact with them and if they keep on staring back at ya den make a move, dis is comin from some1 whos been single for a year now rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Nov 9, 2007 5:56 PM CST Why are Irish guys too shy to approach women?
hyak1
hyak1hyak1dublin, Dublin Ireland7 Threads 91 Posts
the one obvious thing to come from this forum is ,eye contact!!eye contact!!eye contact !!.This proves that first impressions last, so why so many people without fotos. love
Nov 10, 2007 6:14 PM CST Why are Irish guys too shy to approach women?
sharina
sharinasharinadublin, Dublin Ireland38 Threads 2 Polls 3,166 Posts
you wearing sun glasses in d pubrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing cool
Nov 11, 2007 10:07 AM CST Why are Irish guys too shy to approach women?
justlooking27
justlooking27justlooking27cork, Cork Ireland4 Threads 19 Posts
i think that most irish guys are just scared of rejection myself included when lads head out its always with mates so if you get blown out you look like a right loser or when you ask a girl would they like a drink they are with there mates so its like goinging in to the lions den anyway whats wrong with a girl asking a fella mit is 2007 after allbanana banana
Nov 11, 2007 4:37 PM CST Why are Irish guys too shy to approach women?
corkgizmo
corkgizmocorkgizmocork, Cork Ireland19 Threads 1,582 Posts
I think its the fear of rejection that does it for most guys,some like women to make the fisrt move so it releives the pressure of chating to them first,grin
Nov 11, 2007 4:52 PM CST Why are Irish guys too shy to approach women?
hyak1
hyak1hyak1dublin, Dublin Ireland7 Threads 91 Posts
if the fear of rejection is your main fear then may i suggest a night out to copper face jacks.if that doesn't work then may i suggest ringin the samaratins on 01010101 laugh
Nov 12, 2007 12:00 PM CST Why are Irish guys too shy to approach women?
justlooking27
justlooking27justlooking27cork, Cork Ireland4 Threads 19 Posts
may i suggest stop looking for young girls thats the last thing we need is some sarcastic dub holding some bog roll giveing advice if your so great why are you herevery mad
Nov 12, 2007 12:34 PM CST Why are Irish guys too shy to approach women?
justlooking27
justlooking27justlooking27cork, Cork Ireland4 Threads 19 Posts
when i say young girls your in your 40s and isee by your profile that you are looking for 18 to 40 thats young to me infact no need to resort to name calling handshake
Nov 12, 2007 3:02 PM CST Why are Irish guys too shy to approach women?
hyak1
hyak1hyak1dublin, Dublin Ireland7 Threads 91 Posts
handshake cheers
Nov 13, 2007 3:43 AM CST Why are Irish guys too shy to approach women?
Jillygirl
JillygirlJillygirldublin, Dublin Ireland38 Posts
OK...just a question then! Why would you put 18 to 40 in your profile if you are not looking for young girls? Your very much not alone in this I might add, so not an attack! Is it just that all men would date an 18 year old given half a chance??!! J
Nov 13, 2007 10:17 AM CST Why are Irish guys too shy to approach women?
judd28
judd28judd28mullingar, Westmeath Ireland14 Threads 1,182 Posts
just checked my profile it says 18-...whatever
I don't remember intentionally putting down 18, so maybe that is the default age when you are filling out your profile, dunno
Nov 13, 2007 11:01 AM CST Why are Irish guys too shy to approach women?
omurchu
omurchuomurchuDundalk, Louth Ireland20 Threads 558 Posts
Thanks Judd ive changed mine down to 18 as wellgrin .......and must be Rich grin .....er okay im lying



sigh sigh
Nov 13, 2007 11:16 AM CST Why are Irish guys too shy to approach women?
judd28
judd28judd28mullingar, Westmeath Ireland14 Threads 1,182 Posts
laugh dirty young man rolling on the floor laughing
Nov 13, 2007 11:17 AM CST Why are Irish guys too shy to approach women?
judd28
judd28judd28mullingar, Westmeath Ireland14 Threads 1,182 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing the old '18 goes into 54, more times than 54 goes into 18' jokegrin laugh
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