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sounds to me as if it was a rebound thing,if a person jumps from one long term relationship right into another relationship you can almost garentee that its a rebound.

at this moment in time you will feel as if you will never get over him,i know how u feel, when me and my wife split i was hurt,and thort exatly the same thing,now ive met a girl i never thort i would ever meet,and even tho i didnt think it at the time, if things hadnt of happend between me and my x wife then i wouldnt be with the girl im with today..

give it time,time is a great healer

KINDATHEART, IT'S NATURAL TO HAVE A GOOD CRY WHENEVER ANY RELATIONSHIP FALLS APART.

AFTER YOU'VE HAD A GOOD CRY YOU MIGHT LIKE TO ASK YOURSELF: DO YOU REALLY LOVE THIS MAN? DOES THE FACT THAT HE IS PRONE TO DEPRESSION WORRY YOU? DID HE REALLY LOVE YOU, OR WERE JUST THE FIRST PERSON THAT CAME ALONG THAT WAS WILLING TO LISTEN HIM AFTER THE BREAKDOWN IN HIS MARRIAGE?

AND MAYBE THE BIGGEST QUESTION: DO YOU THINK YOU CAN FIND A BETTER MAN ELSEWHERE?

IF, AFTER ASKING ALL THESE QUESTIONS, YOU FEEL AS IF THIS MAN IS THE MAN FOR YOU THEN YOU COULD TRY USING THE SAME EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL TACTICS THAT HIS WIFE'S USED TO GET HIM BACK.

IF NOT THEN IT'S ONLY A MATTER OF TIME BEFORE YOU FIND ANOTHER MAN THAT WILL PROVIDE YOU WITH MORE LONG TERM HAPPINESS THAN THIS MAN COULD.

YOU ARE A WONDERFUL PERSON. YOU DESERVE A WONDERFUL MAN TO SHARE YOUR LIFE WITH.

When i split from my ex 18 months ago, a very abusive man...i felt like my life was over...i cried for hours, ate like a pig...did all the things u do when depressed over a bloke..

time has healed me....i see him now and i know it gets up his nose to see me so happy with my life...

him on the other hand has cheated on his new girl friend with his ex partner and he is going down hill fast....

im.... coz i may not have man in my life yet but now i get to pick and choose who i want.....

You have to have time to de discover urself, ur self worth, u need time to kick ur self up ur own butt.....

but most of all u need to get over ur marriage 1st then deal with what this man did to u...

remember u love only u and ur kids......

a man comes 2nd to all of that..

look in the mirror and tell urself..

its coz im worth it...

and dont for get...cry scream shout rant.....

then get urself out and be who u want to be.....

best wishes...from someone who knows what and where u are rite now.

lets get things into perspective

1 the only person who can relieve that woman of her alcoholism is the woman herself
2 we can never forsee the future and chris is right with the term "rebound" and take heed of his comments
3im afraid you took pity on this man for reasons only you know and yes you have been hurt, you will have to use this experience to gain strength from it
4 time is a great healer and im sure this experience will guide you in the future
5take on board angels experience and learn from her progress that she has today






come and join us at the forums and have a ball and dont look back in anger look forward with pride and that " i matter



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To me it sounds like she got dumped by the guy she had an affair with, And is playing her husband. If she went that far with moving to a new home with him, She would do it again if the chance came around again. That's my thoughts anyway.

thank u for your kind words ..some of what u said has made me think .thank u for taking the time to read my forum and replying to it ..thank you

my friends think the same thing as you .she was known for seeing different men but blamed it on her being an alcolholic..then moving in to a house a making a new life with this man and walking away from her sons and husband ..i just don,t understand why he would let her treat him this way ??? anyway i am moving on with my life ..thank u for your reply

thank you for your reply ..i am not the sort of person that would blackmail to get what i want ..i have decided to move on with my life ..thank u for replying back and thank u for your comment on thinking i was a wonerful person ...give me a bit of a esteme boost lol ..thank u once again .and good luck finding what u r looking for x

obsession and infatuation Come to mind. He probably thinks that things will be fine from now on, And they probably will be for a while. Keep your head high and look at it as an experience and a lesson learnt. Do what i do, Don't look at the past, Because it's the past. Look ahead and think of what there is to look forward to in the future. No one knows what the future holds, But your future is what you make it.

THANK YOU TO EVERYONE FOR REPLYING BACK TO ME ,THANK YOU FOR YOUR THOUGHTS AND ADVICE .I HOPE EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU FIND THE PERSON THAT WILL MAKE YOU ALL HAPPY .TAKECAREXX

I am in hope that i will meet someone one day. Hence my avatar name.

Dont forget....stay with us on here...we may be mad but by golly u couldnt find a better bunch of cyber mates to have......we tell it as it is.....

It is the same as having new wound. The most painful time is when the injury happened. But it will heal bit by bit. Only time will make you feel better.
It was just a bad experience. Being positive is the key. Anything else doesn’t matter.

Yes all the above is true i think once a relationship breaks up it normally doesn't last when you get back together because there is no trust there she will leave him again that's on the cards it's just a matter of time yes maybe it was on the rebound but he probably did love you it's just he had greater ties with his ex more fool him but when we love we love with the heart it's alright someone saying this or that they are thinking with there head the heart rules the head in some cases.
Me i met someone and had a son i was truly madly deeply in love besotted with her and the fantastic son she gave me i cried rivers for that woman she had PND so her problems were in her head she kept pushing me away and didn't want me but i kept falling for her "I LOVE YOU"story and went back times many one because i knew she had a problem in her head and she wanted my support two i wanted to be there for my son plus my heart had only her in it i was in love big style all my family and friends could see we were no good together even i did when i sat and thought about it but one phone call or text and i would come running because i was besotted and wanted her for all the reasons above but it would never last because she wanted other men in her life and she couldn't see her problems yes some days she would see them and be sorry but it's as if the next day her head would revert back to the same old same old merry-go-round i used to call it the mgr.I used to say your head is like one of those etch a sketch things i tell you how things are and you can see things clearly but the next day you have moved the bar and wiped the screen clean and we're back to the begining life's dificult nobody gives you a book on how to live it you have to go throughit and be happy with what you have got make the most of the hand you're dealt live your own life learn by your mistakes and never regret the things you have done it's all a learning curve just come out of it the other end saying wow that was a good ride/experience or that was shit i will do it different next time good luck to all in your search for happiness and finding that special someone in Turkey we say (Iyi sanslar) which is just good luck but sometimes luck is what you make it

probably not, theres a lot like that.