IS THERE A MAN OUT THERE FOR ME TO LOVE

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kindatheart newtownards, Down, Northern Ireland UK

Tue Apr 7, 2009 6:26 PM CST : IS THERE A MAN OUT THERE FOR ME TO LOVE

i was married for 17yrs and in my marriage was alot of abuse and violence against me ..yes i stayed in the marriage because i was so in love with my husband .i didn,t want to believe that some one i loved so much could hurt me as bad as he did .until the day came he left me for another woman ....i felt like my heart had shatterd into a million tiny pieces ..it took me nearly 2 yrs to come to terms with what he done to me ..Then ..i met a really nice man who i went into a relationship with .i had feel in love with this man and worshipped the ground he stood on and the air he breathed ....but once again i found myself in that painful lionley dark place i was when my husband left me for another woman .insteed this man had taken his wife back after they were separated because she had an affair with a man she worked with she was also an alcoholic...she wanted him back after making a home with the man she had an affaire with .i felt so hurt and used...now i am starting to think is there anyone man out there able to love me for me and stay with me .i have such alot of love to give to the right man ..but i don,t seem to be having much luck with love in my life ...i want a simple happy life .with a man that can love me as much as i can love him ...I AM AT A LOST

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geminiman61 nottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK

Tue Apr 7, 2009 6:34 PM CST : IS THERE A MAN OUT THERE FOR ME TO LOVE

kindatheart: i was married for 17yrs and in my marriage was alot of abuse and violence against me ..yes i stayed in the marriage because i was so in love with my husband .i didn,t want to believe that some one i loved so much could hurt me as bad as he did .until the day came he left me for another woman ....i felt like my heart had shatterd into a million tiny pieces ..it took me nearly 2 yrs to come to terms with what he done to me ..Then ..i met a really nice man who i went into a relationship with .i had feel in love with this man and worshipped the ground he stood on and the air he breathed ....but once again i found myself in that painful lionley dark place i was when my husband left me for another woman .insteed this man had taken his wife back after they were separated because she had an affair with a man she worked with she was also an alcoholic...she wanted him back after making a home with the man she had an affaire with .i felt so hurt and used...now i am starting to think is there anyone man out there able to love me for me and stay with me .i have such alot of love to give to the right man ..but i don,t seem to be having much luck with love in my life ...i want a simple happy life .with a man that can love me as much as i can love him ...I AM AT A LOST .............

Your man and time will come be patient and one day all this will be a distant memory fill your head and heart with love and laughter and be happy once again we all deserve this so smile and be positive there's someone for everyone maybe even me

Love will find a way love will conquer all

kindatheart newtownards, Down, Northern Ireland UK

Tue Apr 7, 2009 6:46 PM CST : IS THERE A MAN OUT THERE FOR ME TO LOVE

geminiman61: Your man and time will come be patient and one day all this will be a distant memory fill your head and heart with love and laughter and be happy once again we all deserve this so smile and be positive there's someone for everyone maybe even me
Love will find a way love will conquer all

thank you for your kind words and i only hope your right that there is some one for everyone ...maybe you and me could run away into the sunset with each other

..and turn to peoples sad storys of love into a very happy ending ..what you think eh

xo lol

geminiman61 nottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK

Tue Apr 7, 2009 6:55 PM CST : IS THERE A MAN OUT THERE FOR ME TO LOVE

kindatheart: thank you for your kind words and i only hope your right that there is some one for everyone ...maybe you and me could run away into the sunset with each other ..and turn to peoples sad storys of love into a very happy ending ..what you think eh xo lol

Well my words are my feelings and your name says it all kindatheart or heart of gold you have a lot to give you can feel the passion in your posts that would be a nice thought and that will happen one day for both of us I'm quite sure whether it's together or not what's the saying never say never but i for one wouldn't run away with someone i haven't seen call me shallow or what there are so many nutters on these sites I'm not saying you are but men masquerade as women all the time keep a PMA and a smile on your face

kindatheart newtownards, Down, Northern Ireland UK

Tue Apr 7, 2009 7:26 PM CST : IS THERE A MAN OUT THERE FOR ME TO LOVE

geminiman61: Well my words are my feelings and your name says it all kindatheart or heart of gold you have a lot to give you can feel the passion in your posts that would be a nice thought and that will happen one day for both of us I'm quite sure whether it's together or not what's the saying never say never but i for one wouldn't run away with someone i haven't seen call me shallow or what there are so many nutters on these sites I'm not saying you are but men masquerade as women all the time keep a PMA and a smile on your face

god i know what you mean when you say there are so many nutters on this site .i have came across a few myself

lol...yes i feel also feel the passion in your pasts also and know we are both looking for some one to share our lives with .i think my problem is when i get involved with a man i become over caring but thats just my nature .when i am in love i give everything i have to that specail man in my life .its what i believe in when to people share there lifes together and all the ups and downs life brings ..i always thought when you fell in love that was it for life or maybe thats just how i wanted it to be but it didn,t work out that way .

.i couldn,t run away with anyone i never met or knew so no i don,t think your shallow at all .but one thing i can honeslty say i am no man i am deffo a woman the pain i went through giving birth was unreal

and i do have the body of a felmale so i know i am 1 percent woman .but i can understand you being cautious

kindatheart newtownards, Down, Northern Ireland UK

Tue Apr 7, 2009 7:30 PM CST : IS THERE A MAN OUT THERE FOR ME TO LOVE

that should be 100percent sure i am a woman

sorry for the mistake xo

gussi Freiburg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany

Wed Apr 8, 2009 4:00 AM CST : IS THERE A MAN OUT THERE FOR ME TO LOVE

kindatheart: i was married for 17yrs and in my marriage was alot of abuse and violence against me ..yes i stayed in the marriage because i was so in love with my husband .i didn,t want to believe that some one i loved so much could hurt me as bad as he did .until the day came he left me for another woman ....i felt like my heart had shatterd into a million tiny pieces ..it took me nearly 2 yrs to come to terms with what he done to me ..Then ..i met a really nice man who i went into a relationship with .i had feel in love with this man and worshipped the ground he stood on and the air he breathed ....but once again i found myself in that painful lionley dark place i was when my husband left me for another woman .insteed this man had taken his wife back after they were separated because she had an affair with a man she worked with she was also an alcoholic...she wanted him back after making a home with the man she had an affaire with .i felt so hurt and used...now i am starting to think is there anyone man out there able to love me for me and stay with me .i have such alot of love to give to the right man ..but i don,t seem to be having much luck with love in my life ...i want a simple happy life .with a man that can love me as much as i can love him ...I AM AT A LOST .............

KaH hi

your description is a text book story that i have heard so many times over. there are many shallow pillocks that call themselves men, they run when the going gets tough, real men get going. Sory to hear of your experiences. Post a piccy on the site maybe your chances will increase.

ocean_1 london, Outer London, England UK

Wed Apr 8, 2009 4:17 AM CST : IS THERE A MAN OUT THERE FOR ME TO LOVE

kindatheart: i was married for 17yrs and in my marriage was alot of abuse and violence against me ..yes i stayed in the marriage because i was so in love with my husband .i didn,t want to believe that some one i loved so much could hurt me as bad as he did .until the day came he left me for another woman ....i felt like my heart had shatterd into a million tiny pieces ..it took me nearly 2 yrs to come to terms with what he done to me ..Then ..i met a really nice man who i went into a relationship with .i had feel in love with this man and worshipped the ground he stood on and the air he breathed ....but once again i found myself in that painful lionley dark place i was when my husband left me for another woman .insteed this man had taken his wife back after they were separated because she had an affair with a man she worked with she was also an alcoholic...she wanted him back after making a home with the man she had an affaire with .i felt so hurt and used...now i am starting to think is there anyone man out there able to love me for me and stay with me .i have such alot of love to give to the right man ..but i don,t seem to be having much luck with love in my life ...i want a simple happy life .with a man that can love me as much as i can love him ...I AM AT A LOST .............

I am sorry to hear this but the advice I can give you is to stop feeling down and sorry for your self. You still young and it seem you can give a big love. Just you need some one to deserve you. Definitely you will arrive at the end of the tunnel where there is light and it can't be dark for ever.
Lift your self up and be positive. Best wishes

kindatheart newtownards, Down, Northern Ireland UK

Wed Apr 8, 2009 7:02 AM CST : IS THERE A MAN OUT THERE FOR ME TO LOVE

ocean_1: I am sorry to hear this but the advice I can give you is to stop feeling down and sorry for your self. You still young and it seem you can give a big love. Just you need some one to deserve you. Definitely you will arrive at the end of the tunnel where there is light and it can't be dark for ever.
Lift your self up and be positive. Best wishes

..thank you for your reply

..i deffo don,t want to sound like i am feeling sorry for myself as i am not..this is just life and i am getting to the piont of thinking is there anyone out there for me

.i suppose the ansrew is who knows and time will tell ..just like any of us

.takecare

kindatheart newtownards, Down, Northern Ireland UK

Wed Apr 8, 2009 7:06 AM CST : IS THERE A MAN OUT THERE FOR ME TO LOVE

gussi: KaH hi your description is a text book story that i have heard so many times over. there are many shallow pillocks that call themselves men, they run when the going gets tough, real men get going. Sory to hear of your experiences. Post a piccy on the site maybe your chances will increase.

I know its sad to see so many people get hurt out of loving some one and being taken for granted..and there are alot of shallow people out there ..some times you need to read the story inside before looking at the cover before judging some one ..i would upload a pic of me if i knew how to lol

Clarissa153 Milford Haven, Dyfed, Wales UK

Fri Apr 10, 2009 5:28 AM CST : IS THERE A MAN OUT THERE FOR ME TO LOVE

You will find someone better not all men are like that try different sites the chat phone lines are free to women and other web sites are free too. Just makes friends with men at first do not rush into anything

kindatheart newtownards, Down, Northern Ireland UK

Fri Apr 10, 2009 10:59 AM CST : IS THERE A MAN OUT THERE FOR ME TO LOVE

Clarissa153: You will find someone better not all men are like that try different sites the chat phone lines are free to women and other web sites are free too. Just makes friends with men at first do not rush into anything

THANK U FOR YOUR ADVICE

reggipops Guildford,surrey, Surrey, England UK

Sat Apr 11, 2009 6:08 PM CST : IS THERE A MAN OUT THERE FOR ME TO LOVE

kindatheart: i was married for 17yrs and in my marriage was alot of abuse and violence against me ..yes i stayed in the marriage because i was so in love with my husband .i didn,t want to believe that some one i loved so much could hurt me as bad as he did .until the day came he left me for another woman ....i felt like my heart had shatterd into a million tiny pieces ..it took me nearly 2 yrs to come to terms with what he done to me ..Then ..i met a really nice man who i went into a relationship with .i had feel in love with this man and worshipped the ground he stood on and the air he breathed ....but once again i found myself in that painful lionley dark place i was when my husband left me for another woman .insteed this man had taken his wife back after they were separated because she had an affair with a man she worked with she was also an alcoholic...she wanted him back after making a home with the man she had an affaire with .i felt so hurt and used...now i am starting to think is there anyone man out there able to love me for me and stay with me .i have such alot of love to give to the right man ..but i don,t seem to be having much luck with love in my life ...i want a simple happy life .with a man that can love me as much as i can love him ...I AM AT A LOST .............

Hi kindatheart, i know exactly where you are comming from, I have been trough it . 2 marriages,3 relationships only the first one went with my best mate at the time, the second, well lets just say my usefullness ran out and the 3 relationships only wanted a roof over their head while one just wanted my money, I don't get a lot being on long term sick. So I really do sympathise with you. Shame you havent a picture, but no worries its the person inside that counts, You will find the right person. Me on the other hand well!!! all i can offer is just me. Take care and chin up you'll find him one day xx
Reg

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