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Oh dear Mulberry, sounds like you have met some wrong uns!! and are hurting quite badly.
The problem is, if you have had a good standard of living or if you have a good job yourself then it would be difficult .. not impossible, but difficult to get hooked up with someone who wasnt working and couldnt maintain that standard.
However, if that person had ambition and drive and you recognised that and together you could build up a decent standard of living then that wouldnt be so difficult to go along with.
Lots of women find powerful men attractive and that kind of power comes with money but its not always the money that is the attractive bit, its the confidence that these men ooze which has got them the good position in the first place.
We are a complicated species us women I have to admit.

what about me what about me

I was going to write a lengthy post as to how wrong you are, how us women are not all the same. But I thought why waste my time? I don't need to justify myself to anyone!!

Just like it would be wrong for me to tar all you men with the same brush and say - You are all wife beaters, liars and cheats! But I don't think that way. I see people for thier own individuality.

go for it Jojo let's hear your views

oh shucks kinda of self filling prophesey yes, not getting the decent women any way so it kinda does matter by the way nice photo.

Hi

I rest my case

I know lots of guys who cannot work for heath problems etc, of which i will not go into, so they are doom yes by your reasoning, what about guys who have 83 percent of the wages taken off them by the child support agency and the gov, and have nothing to live on, cannot see the kids etc, cannot afford to go to work or let alone wine and dine the women? It seems they are doom as well. Lots of men have killed themselves over this etc.

Who are any of your posts to buddy if you don't quote the person your referring to they will not know your answering to them.
Sorry you feel this way but again i disagree with you,you haven't cheered up let me try and explain i thought it was just women that didn't understand my point of view ......

Right i know this woman and most women are like this not the shit you've built up in your head.......Please read this and try to do it you will find it DOES/CAN work

Her name is unimportant but i will tell you if i say anything on here or in life it's the truth

Michelle will text or ring me and say are you doing anything if I'm not i will say so anyway we will arrange to meet or she would pick me up in her car let's say this time i didn't want her to pick me up i would say i will meet you at the park.
So she will drive there and i will walk on the way into the park there's flower beds but it could be a buttercup or a daisy or even a tree blossom the ideas still there it's free ok?
So i see Michelle we kiss and i give her the flower she is so happy it's the thought that counts not the cost sometimes less is more if you get my drift it's not always to give from your wallet if it's from the heart.Most women would prefer the latter so i would kiss her give her a nice cuddle this makes her feel wanted then we hold hands and walk sometimes with her dog others on our own we will sit on the grass or one of the seats watching the ducks or the world going by sometimes i will take her a glass of wine and i will have a can we don't need a drink we have each others company we are both very touchy feely people we will just sit kissing and cuddling then she will have to go so we kiss and cuddle till the next time the cost £0.00 only time and effort some people will find this too much but if you meet someone you click with try this it don't have to cost a fortune to make someone happy.
The moral to my story is the best things in life are free if your not too bored I'm letting out all my secrets now buy a 3 pack of lovehearts sort through them and find something nice leave this somewhere and it will make her happy i have given Michelle 3 lovehearts cost 35p for 3 packets cost of 3 sweets maybe 2p ask Michelle what they mean to her ...priceless

Self confessed golddigger

What other use would I have for my little fork if it weren't for digging up gold

Cheers to all us fellow golddiggers worldwidewebwide

well to the girls out there,,why do girls say in their profile,,they would like a ,professional gentleman,,,,now,,thats somthing a guy would never say

true a man wouldnt say he was looking for a professional gentleman unless he was from the other side of the fence, but i have no objection to a profesional woman if the chemistry is right.

yeah or they say this GSOH = meaing have good good salary and own home. One woman said is this too much to ask. I say yep. Lots of women are intrested in a man with money, one its a good status symbol and lots of freebies, also if they relationships goes good and they move in or get married, and it all breaks up, she can get half his stuff and half is salary if she has kids to him, so either way the woman are on winnner here.

never met a woman like that and do not swear at me, also have you been divorced, had the csa take half your salary. have you been through the family courts, I have met many woman and boy they are only intrested in money. Soon as you tell them u have none or in a low paid job, (meaning high paid but the csa takes so much off you u might as sign on) This is my experience if you do not like it then do not respond to my posts.

You really are a bit of a plonker aren't you?

GSOH means GOOD SENSE OF HUMOUR

No the wonder she said 'Is that too much to ask'

Sheesh!!!!!

Lmao

well i think your wrong ,when i go out with someone i have to have a connection with them .money wont buy that.

That's so funny

Well I mean 'Seriously'

He must be one busy little bee if he knows 99% of women in the UK.

Maybe it has nothing to do with the fact that his dates want a man with money.

Maybe they just want one who doesn't Whine so much

I must admit I'm considering rewriting my profile including some of the stuff he wrote a few boxes back there-------------------------

-->>"yeah or they say this GSOH = meaing have good good salary and own home. One woman said is this too much to ask. I say yep. Lots of women are intrested in a man with money, one its a good status symbol and lots of freebies, also if they relationships goes good and they move in or get married, and it all breaks up, she can get half his stuff and half is salary if she has kids to him, so either way the woman are on winnner here."

Cos I'm bored of my profile going on about budgies and feng shui plus his version may bring me good luck

WELL DONE! my sentiments exactly, I have said on many occassions, cyber chat mans the men want you to strip for free, GIRLS, work out where their other hand is, and a date, is straight in the bedroom for relief, GUYS get ready for some real good talking to.....cheap sex is not on the agenda, CHEAP, we have to do the coffee/tea, we have to wash up after, we have to do the washing after, and you get for the price of a drop of petrol to get here, GET ALIFE....WE WEREN`T BORN YESTERDAY.
Your the gold diggers, maybe not money, but my mum said us girls were sitting on a gold mine, and your not getting my nuggets.

I could go on & on, & on. but i wont waste my breathe.