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Mulberry4000: Hi

here is my obseravation of women on dating sites, not just here but on other sites. I find that 99% of woman are not intrested in a man if she percieves him to have no money, what I mean, no house, no car, or lives in a good location, if the guy is poor meaning unemployed, in a low paid job, or a job that is low status (binmen get paid lots but you know what i mean). Also if a man is percieved to be cultured, then the fish does not bite. woman in general in the uk are gold diggers. I never met a woman who is other wised. Also lots of women and men unfortunaately are looking for the mr and mrs pefect, got news for you they do not exist. just my thoughts

Mulberry4000: Hi I think the men on here must be desperate for a date as they are here to just agree with the woman but the facts out way anything they have said on this form

68% of women were granted divorce according to http://www.statistics.gov.uk/cci/nugget.asp?id=170
http://archives.cnn.com/2000/HEALTH/03/15/divorce.suicide.wmd/index.html

"Typically, the man is shocked at the news that he's going to be divorced," said Baraff, noting that women initiate the majority of divorce proceedings. "The woman has also been dropping hints all over the place for the man, but he just doesn't get it. He never thinks it's as bad as she does. He's lost not only a wife, he typically loses his children, home, and money." Go here and see how the CSA make men poorer http://www.onwww.co.uk/

http://www.mylifeafterdivorce.com/financial-implications-
of-divorce/do-women-get-too-much-in-the-divorce-settlement.html
"England is now seen as the most generous country in Europe for women getting divorced. The sympathy shown by English judges for women has attracted thousands of wives from other countries to London to have their divorce cases heard here."

http://www.mylifeafterdivorce.com/financial-implications-of-divorce/men-and-the-divorce-process.html

"The divorce system and how it affects men
There is no doubt that men are often seriously disadvantaged by the divorce system as it stands at present although there are indications that this is gradually changing. Seven out of ten divorce petitions are instigated by women who usually cite unreasonable behaviour as their reason for getting divorced. Many men (and women as well) are taken completely by surprise when they are told that their nearest and dearest wants them out of their life.

The financial aspects of divorce are often the most difficult and stressful to deal with. Perhaps the best way to approach this is to get expert advice on your divorce finances as early as possible in the divorce process.

Legal costs and divorce
It is often the case that a non working wife will be in receipt of legal aid while her working soon-to-be-ex husband has to pay at least double for his own legal costs because he has to fund his divorce solicitor from his own pocket.

A good number of men come out of the divorce process feeling angry and embittered at what they perceive as the unfairness of proceedings that may have forced them out of the marital home while continuing to support their children.

Care of the children after divorce
The wife is more often than not given primary care of the children and the husband may well lose regular and meaningful contact with them. after a divorce.

The feelings of anger and bitterness can be exacerbated if the wife has had an affair and the husband places the blame for the marriage breakdown on the wife. He may well feel that this perceived fault should be taken into account and be reflected in any arguments about the financial settlement in the divorce.

Childcare, residency and contact are other areas where men can be seen to be disadvantaged both during and after divorce, with seemingly little account taken of a father's need to see his children and to keep in close contact with them. Tales of women manipulating and denying contact to fathers are, sadly, not uncommon and the courts appear disinclined to assist even where there is clear evidence that fathers are being unfairly treated."

Zellarrone1: Ah, but it's SURELY not completely all bad, you now being an MP.Just think of free set of gardening tools and massaging sofa you may just be entitled to

Also, think of your new title... Seabiscuit Honorary MP

It's the title that attracts the women.. Just ask John Prescott to confirm this, if you're in any doubt

Seabiscuit: Are you insinuating that I look like John Prescott???

Mulberry4000: Hi

.....I find that 99% of woman are not interested in a man if she perceives him to have no money; what I mean, no house, no car, or lives in a good location. If the guy is poor, meaning unemployed, in a low paid job, or a job that is low status (binmen get paid lots but you know what I mean). Also if a man is perceived to be cultured, then the fish does not bite. Woman in general in the UK are gold diggers. I never met a woman who is other wise. Also, lots of women, and men, unfortunately, are looking for Mr. or Mrs. perfect: got news for you they do not exist....

flans: here a tip..for the guys...if you meet a girl,,,listen carefully,,and remember how many questions she asked before asking what you do for a living,,,the longer down the list,that question is the better,,if its question number one,,do a runner

flans: here a tip..for the guys...if you meet a girl,,,listen carefully,,and remember how many questions she asked before asking what you do for a living,,,the longer down the list,that question is the better,,if its question number one,,do a runner

Sojourner: So, first off: you are semi-literate as there are a multitude of spelling and grammatical errors in your original post. And you have either no job or a low paying job. You probably have a low status job as well. And you are not interested in the cultural aspects of life: the arts, music, literature, etc. So, I wonder, just what is it you think would appeal to a woman?

Seabiscuit: Desperate for a date? Not quite fella, just that most on here don't agree with your views.. Maybe you've been f*cked over in the past but is it right to tar all women with the same brush? It's like a woman saying all men are cheats.. Same principle.

Sojourner: So, first off: you are semi-literate as there are a multitude of spelling and grammatical errors in your original post. And you have either no job or a low paying job. You probably have a low status job as well. And you are not interested in the cultural aspects of life: the arts, music, literature, etc. So, I wonder, just what is it you think would appeal to a woman?

A woman who wants as a partner a man with a good job, a man who has some finesse, who is intelligent and interested in life and culture, who can read and write decently--this is a woman who is a gold digger? No, this is an ordinary, average woman who does not want an albatross hanging around her neck.

Sojourner: Asking what someone does for a living, for me, is not about how much money he makes. It is about if he is an interesting person, a hard worker, a responsible person.

Mulberry4000: the old saying is more truer today than it was when hulme the philospher said it 400 years ago. " keep your enemies close but your friends closer".