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myself i am very insecure, people look at me and think he is not doing to bad, i put on a front it is not hard, it kind of become"s easier as the year"s tick away, everyone who know"s me woulld probally form a view that i am happy, sorted, people want to be me for one reason or another why i look at myself in a diffrent way, i know myself, im good an expert even at making people think what a success i am, even though within myself i look at myself as a failiure, i wont change... that is the way it is with me, i will alway"s have self doubt"s surrounding myself.. am i the only peron who feel"s this way?? do you reckon i need some kind of help? or does everyone feel this? i am 37 and i am kind of at a cross road"s in my life what do i do carry on like im the best which i am not far from it.. am i missing out do i need to open up and show people i am not a hard nosed insensitive person which is really a horrible thing to be, or do i do what i want to do and let my good nature shine naturally...

I often feel the same way but I'd never let anyone know - I'm good at hiding it too

Hello Crazzy, good to see you in here......

Scouser, I have not seen a particularly hard nosed insensitive person in here so far, fairly straightforward I would have said of you and intelligent.

Yes I have insecurities, but only my very close friends would know I hope and of course now you, but you won't be telling will you....lol

I tend to put my head up, smile and try to walk tall with confidence, seems to work, only trouble is I get told I look stuck up! Till someone gets to know me that is, can't win can you?

scouser.....it all comes down to....how much do you love yourself......

what you have to remember is......even bloody movie stars.....feel like this sometimes.....

i think the worst thing you can do.....is turn your insecurities into anger.......i see it alot on this forum......

no need to thank me.....its my pleasure......

nice one thank you!! i am getting better every day, today is the first day of the rest of my life, the world is my oyster..

I keep repeating this .. Why do you moan ? You look ok , you are healthy and you are young that puts you on the top of the tree .. Instead of thinking about those things that you can't do , think about all those things that you can . Don't sit behind this silly pc .. go out for a walk .. cook yourself something nice , call a friend .. tidy up .. You need to learn to love yourself , to respect yourself for what you are .. and don't demand from yourself doing things that you can not do . Forget about what you have not and learn to be happy with what you have .

Hi cazzy27 , nice to see you .. your helmet reminds me of sky diving and parachutes .. Do you ?

Let your good nature shine through. Its the only way to become at one with yourself... to be who you feel inside.

Like i said i am getting better each day, Cheers

I think you really know the answer to that, don't you? Yes, we all have insecurities, we wouldn't be human otherwise. And those who appear that they don't have any insecurities at all are pretending - its all a show. And you know the answer to your later question - no, you should just stay as lovely as you are. We have enough hard-nosed insensitive people in the world, why just be another one? Just because nobody has appreciated that you are genuine and sincere so far, doesn't mean that someone won't in the future. Besides, its their loss, isn't it?
When you find that special someone, she will be a very lucky lady indeed!! Heed my words................?
Dx.

Thanks A

I think it should be a criminal offence to pull threads up after 10 weeks No really once you post a thread it belongs to CS so anyone can do what they like with it, I forgot i done this one, Never mind, I get better every day

Scouser you sure you do't want me to write my whole phyc 101 on the issue......... ...

"One foot in front of the other is how the journey starts,where you end up is up to you."

Starlite

scouser take the girls advice and get it pmed......let the lite shine mate ...highly recomended

Thanks Starlite you are a Star

Cheers Bulldog, I still have some work to do, I do my best every day and i prefer being nice to nasty it's much more easy and i like it

too rite mate...its nice to be impotant but nor important to be nice

You submitted a new post today. But okay - noted!
Dx.

I like to pretend that everything's alright....because when everybody else thinks you're fine, sometimes you forget for a while that you're not......

It's nice to know im not the only one in the world