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Well...it's only gonna be a date, so far right?
Maybe it'll 'work out'; maybe not.

If it does, then I'm sure you'll be (and he'll be) glad to go public,
announce that you've been "itemized" (that the 2 of you are now an 'item'), make a big public announcement on CS (giving him a nice, public commitment scare...coz men just love committment, and the sooner the better! lol)
Then you can do the "Hello Magazine" spread...maybe get the cover...

Then he can go on Oprah and 'jump the couch' while you wait in the wings...then we can interview you and, you can say how "amazing" he is, and that "he's really changing the world".

(Just don't let on to him that the truth is that "War of the World's" sucked, and that he hasnt' done a decent film since "Magnolia"...and that not only he shouldn't play "Iron Man" but that the only super-hero that he's qualified to play is Robin.)(And don't tell him he was a rubbish choice for Lestat, either). (You'll be ok, just humour him).

Ok...so let's say you do date Tom-...I mean..him...and....it works out. Ok, you go public. Fine.

Lets say you go public right now. If it works out, ok. But what if it doesn't? Friends always 'pick a side' at every breakup...and he knows that girls will talk...(how long before a string called "The CS Ladies Room" springs up, where the girls can get the all the gossip on him...what's right with him, what's wrong with him...etc...)

Even when you're both single, folk on here with associate the two of you as a couple...won't they? (or, an 'ex-couple').

As soon as you announce that your so much as meeting him for coffee...it's be all sorts of "when's the wedding" jokes...

and nobody needs that...

Hey Porsha, Myth is right, he dosen't want everyone knowing what he is doing.

Which is a good thing for you too if the date does not work out further than friends.

It would only become a problem if you dated for a while and you are still denied, which would of course indicate he is a player and beleive me, they can be sneaky!

But an far as I can see and not being male, you are a lovely girl!

So good luck with the date and try to keep an open mind.......

Hey chick,

I agree with what they say, but if you've been hurt in the past then it is easy to assume people are acting a certain way for the wrong reasons. (Been there too !!)

As for wondering what's wrong, if they make you feel that way then maybe they aren't the person for you.

Personally I think you are one of the most attractive girls around here !!!

Take it slow and see what happens. If you've been through the international forum, you will see that practically every week there is a couple announcing that they are getting together and then airing their dirty pants in public when it all goes wrong !

Keep smiling, beautiful !!

Well if it was me who was taking you out I would tell the world that ive got a date with a beautiful, fun loving and intellegent lady.

awwww hun:( i think you look pretty and youve always been a nice person to talk to,dont let one person put you off hunny,ive only been split up from my wife for 2 months,my confidence (that i cant spell) is at an all time low and all it takes is one little thing and it makes you feel worse,i know exatly how you feel hun, im going through it my self,my wife is a very pretty woman and some times i can be walking along and there could be a girl who isnt half as atrative who turns away from me,even tho its personallity that i go for moor than anything,something as simple as that will make me feel down and bad about my self.
keep going hun,you will find someone im sure of it :)
takecare

are you sure he didn't put tee hee or lol after he said not to tell anyone. got a feeling he may of been refering to an earlier thread when someone was asking him to reveal who he fancied.

Are you asking for free advice .. or are you prepared to pay for it in kind ? There are often simple solutions to complicated issues . I am afraid that is all you get for free

what you like carerra, im sure there are plenty of men who would like to take you for dinner, having children should not come into it, most people like kid"s, they are fun to be around some of the time, it say"s on your profile you are not looking, you do not have to be looking, to go out for drink"s with someone, you are right you are just you, the person asking you out is just them, if you think you like the person, then go out with them, what harm will it do, as for looking like quasimodo, er i know most people on here think your a good looker, i doubt if you have to spend hour"s in the bathroom getting ready either, you just roll out of bed, and you look good, go on go out with them, who is it anyway??

You just keep being you ok, youre perfect as you are...


If he doesnt want anyone else knowing then perhaps hes got a few more on the go too, but i cant speak for him. You are one of the belles (is that the right word ?) of the forum and i for one would tell all if we were going out.





ps ill be your biach.............

Oh where do I start?????

I have to confess that last night, I took what was said to me, totally the wrong way!

I am now feeling totally embarressd and stupid!

So I send my apologies to a certain person, and all my thanks to all the nice people whom tried to cheer me up and said some really nice words.


Must admitt though, I got loads of nice mail. I wish I had put up a thread feeling sorry for myself ages ago! LOL Just teasing.

Thanks again to everyone.

Hugs

It is all good then if it was a misunderstanding; just don't over do with the apologies.

Guys always appreciate women who can admit a mistake but totally interest if they sense and sort of weakness. Unless you happen to deal with dodgy man who will exploit this:(

"but totally interest"

I mean " but totally LOSE interest"

PS Why isn't there an edit feature here?

I totally understand what you are saying, thanks.

No. I said I was sorry once and had a giggle over it. If that is not good enough? Oh well!! LOL

u know wot my thoughts are on the subject, i will date u just let me know wot ur wearing in advance lol xx

STU!!!! LMAO

well if u ask me ur stunning

dont worry you are not ugly far from it, i think you just need to have some self confidence and dont listen to men who talk c***, YOU ARE WHAT YOU ARE AND DONT CHANGE FOR ANYONE

even bagolo aggrees that ur one of the most attractive women on here maybe u should turn lesbo lol only joking

leave this thread alone it was a missunderstanding that has been resolved, start a "I like porsha thread" if you want cause this one is done with and a bit embarresing for her now.