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Why is finding a girl so difficult?? Am I an ugly bastad??

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LonleyLondona
London, Outer London, England UK
Posted: Dec 16, 2006, 4:25 AM CST
Right. Ive bin trying to find a girl online for about a month now. Have had quite a few replies but haven't met one girl yet. Im getting so fed up of being a single 24 yr old in North London. Specially when I see slap heads going around with modal-chicks or big fat dudes with a thin-ass lady... what the blimmin bollox am I doing wrong?? dancing
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LonleyLondona
London, Outer London, England UK
Posted: Dec 16, 2006, 5:14 AM CST
"No LonleyLondona you're not an ugly bastad your just fine" would have been nice fm the 13 or so people who have viewed the post so far. Thanks!crying crying
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Lisa1983
Bromley, Kent, England UK
Posted: Dec 16, 2006, 5:26 AM CST
Hiya.

A month isn't that long really its only 4 weeks or 30 days. I'm sure lots of girls are very wary about meeting somebody online, you have to be careful these days. It's different for a guy you may well be up for meeting straight away, but think of it from a girls point of view, you may not really be who you say you are, that may not be your picture, you may be a murderer a rapist etc.
It's probably not beacuse they don't like you, more that they just need longer to get to know and tust you, then meet you
Patience mister!......
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scouser
london UK
Posted: Dec 16, 2006, 5:31 AM CST
Personally i dont think nothing is ugly, The human species is unique, We come in different shapes sizes and all look different, Even identical twins have a difference, It seems nothing is easy these days even finding a partner, I am sure people dont find you ugly, You have to be patient a month on dating sites is a short time, I have been here 18 months while i have had plenty of attention i am still singlelaugh wine
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A1983
West Yorks, Halifax, West Yorkshire, England UK
Posted: Dec 16, 2006, 5:31 AM CST
Lon i know exactly what u meen. Just av not had much response in over 2 month dunno av been thinking samething - am an ugly bastad
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LonleyLondona
London, Outer London, England UK
Posted: Dec 16, 2006, 5:39 AM CST
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Hiya.

A month isn't that long really its only 4 weeks or 30 days. I'm sure lots of girls are very wary about meeting somebody online, you have to be careful these days. It's different for a guy you may well be up for meeting straight away, but think of it from a girls point of view, you may not really be who you say you are, that may not be your picture, you may be a murderer a rapist etc.
It's probably not beacuse they don't like you, more that they just need longer to get to know and tust you, then meet you
Patience mister!......
Ok I guess your right. I just think to myself is there any point in continuing to look for someone online or should I just forget it and stay sad and single. I know what you're saying though about girls being wary... you should be with all the nutters that are around. Just to clarify to anyone who is reading this I am not one of those nutters, a murderer or rapist or anything like that.

Anyway, what are you saying Lisa? How long have you been trying online dating?... have you met anyone yet?

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LonleyLondona
London, Outer London, England UK
Posted: Dec 16, 2006, 5:41 AM CST
Thanks for your comments scoucer and A1983 I think we've just gotta wait a while longer u know???
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A1983
West Yorks, Halifax, West Yorkshire, England UK
Posted: Dec 16, 2006, 5:43 AM CST
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Ok I guess your right. I just think to myself is there any point in continuing to look for someone online or should I just forget it and stay sad and single. I know what you're saying though about girls being wary... you should be with all the nutters that are around. Just to clarify to anyone who is reading this I am not one of those nutters, a murderer or rapist or anything like that.

Anyway, what are you saying Lisa? How long have you been trying online dating?... have you met anyone yet?

You might as well continue lookin as u aint got anything to loose from it. You might meet a bird when u go out wi your mates or u might get to know someone on here and eventually end up with exactly who u want. yay
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scouser
london UK
Posted: Dec 16, 2006, 5:49 AM CST
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Thanks for your comments scoucer and A1983 I think we've just gotta wait a while longer u know???
Here is to the next 18 monthslaugh wine
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Lisa1983
Bromley, Kent, England UK
Posted: Dec 16, 2006, 6:37 AM CST
Well I've only been on here a couple of weeks. More just for a chat then meeting people, but I'm open minded I guess. See what happens. Been chatting to a few nice people though. Decent bunch!
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Englandzn01
Doncaster UK
Posted: Dec 16, 2006, 6:42 AM CST
Dcent bunch indeed cheers

Enjoy the weekend wink
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LonleyLondona
London, Outer London, England UK
Posted: Dec 16, 2006, 7:10 AM CST
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Well I've only been on here a couple of weeks. More just for a chat then meeting people, but I'm open minded I guess. See what happens. Been chatting to a few nice people though. Decent bunch!
Well fm what I can see in your pics you look really hot so I guess you dont need to look online Lisa. Like the costume by the way. Catch you guys lata Ive gotta go. head banger
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Lisa1983
Bromley, Kent, England UK
Posted: Dec 16, 2006, 8:02 AM CST
Aww how sweet! blushing

I'm afraid I fall into the special K wouldn't go a miss catagory rolling on the floor laughing
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LonleyLondona
London, Outer London, England UK
Posted: Dec 16, 2006, 9:13 AM CST
No way! I was talking about real big muntaz. Like the three that were after me last year... no lie I had three BIG women all friends fm my old work and all after me last year. They told me blatently. I thought, just my luck... Cant find an attractive girl and then three big mummaz come to me at once. I was terrified. Specially when one sat on my leg and almost broke my bones.
Nah, fm what I can see you look around purfect size. Not like a baloon and not like a rake. Corn-flakes or frosties for u. thumbs up
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Dandelion
Southampton, Hampshire UK
Posted: Dec 16, 2006, 11:05 AM CST
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Right. Ive bin trying to find a girl online for about a month now. Have had quite a few replies but haven't met one girl yet. Im getting so fed up of being a single 24 yr old in North London. Specially when I see slap heads going around with modal-chicks or big fat dudes with a thin-ass lady... what the blimmin bollox am I doing wrong??
LL, maybe you are trying too hard or rushing. You are expecting things to happen overnight. It doesn't work like that. There is some truth in it when they say if you go looking for it, it won't happen and whilst you are busy doing other things, it will catch you unawares. Don't go all out just to find a girl, enjoy the site and you will make some great friends along the way. Then, it might just happen. Don't give up and don't despair.

An, no, you're not an ugly bastard at all, far from it, I would say you were rather handsome. Good luck to you and just take your time, she is out there somewhere..................
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Dandelion
Southampton, Hampshire UK
Posted: Dec 16, 2006, 11:09 AM CST
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You might as well continue lookin as u aint got anything to loose from it. You might meet a bird when u go out wi your mates or u might get to know someone on here and eventually end up with exactly who u want.
Bird? Bird?? Are you still single?!
Dx.rolling eyes laugh peace
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scouser
london UK
Posted: Dec 16, 2006, 11:13 AM CST
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Bird? Bird?? Are you still single?!
Dx.
When he mentioned meeting the bird, I assummed he was talking about the christmas turkeylaugh wine
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bulldog66
doncaster UK
Posted: Dec 16, 2006, 11:27 AM CST
evening all ...thanks for the bday threads ...there called birds cos they pick up wormsconfused
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Englandzn01
Doncaster UK
Posted: Dec 16, 2006, 11:30 AM CST
thought dogs picked up worms? rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing


bottoms up cheers
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bulldog66
doncaster UK
Posted: Dec 16, 2006, 11:42 AM CST
na we shite worms mate,its the toilet duck it as a scouring efectrolling on the floor laughing
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