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I am a little confused, Did you add them on another site or not? It seems like you didn't, but I guessed you had information that was public and they didn't like what they saw.
At some point, if a relationship is going to move on, you will have to get closer with a view to meet (or chat over Skype or something), it's unavoidable unless you are both happy to keep things on this site.
Either way, as you say "we live and learn".
Try not to let it get you too down, and good luck with the search.