spartan
ayrshire, Scotland UK
Posted: Mar 26, 2007, 10:56 AM CST
There must be a lot of people in the world who never find the right person for them, simply because they've decided to date locally and perhaps don't travel very widely in general. Consider the divorce rate in this country--it suggests incompatibility is a major factor in breakups. Maybe I'm a romantic, but I don't want to be one of those guys who is with someone and is fantasising about screwing a movie star or a pop princess or any attractive woman who shows up on television of an evening. I want my fantasies to be about the one I'm with. How many people find that? Does it even exist? Am I deluding myself? That must be what true love is. Most people, though, I think they just settle for somebody, anybody, because they've given up on finding the One who'll make their heart race every time they think about them, and they're scared to be alone, scared to be left behind. Society puts pressure on you not to be alone, at the expense, perhaps, of true, absolute happiness. If the One--if such a person actually exists--lives at the other of the country, then for God's sake don't let distance stand in your way. Unless of course you're piss poor and lazy. In which case, retract everything I just said, lol.