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We are strange and varied creatures, with those at the top and those in the gutter, Same in the dating game, YES game.
This image thing all so important, to me too, my prejudice is I cant get close to an overweight woman, literally and in my mind.
Most blokes clammer for the perfect Woman in glossy magazines, or if in real life they totally lose it.
This may help to put things in perspective, think of us as animals which we are, but don't like to think so, We are all genetically programmed to perform certain functions, to survive these days its work, food, sex, children.
Replace work for hunt, and we are still cave men,
So going back to beautiful women, if I hear beauty is skin deep one more time I will SCREAM, Its not! some people are kinder and more thoughtful than others, but nothing to do with skin. If looks was so unimportant why is there a multimillion pound health and beauty industry.
So overweight people stop hiding behind a lie and do something about it, stop eating for three people, and get spiritually, mentally and physically healthy.
If it makes some people happier think of this next time you see a stunningly beautiful man or woman, imagine they have no bones and all that's left is a pile of blubber,skin,muscle and organs that kind of makes us all equal, just a genetic heap of cells.
But forget the freak good looks and the clinically obese and lets all be happy in the middle of the road, if you can?

Dude, ur a little scary

Think I read on your profile that you look younger than your years - then you are very fortunate or you work out extremely hard to achieve your fit looks. Me - I'm a little overweight and would like to be a little slimmer but I like to cook and I like to eat good food and drink good wine - so I balance being happy to being a little overweight and honest to God I am happy in my skin.

Just wondered though how you would react if your partner got sick and had to take medication that made her fat!! Would you dump her?

Funny isnt it how some really good looking people are so shallow though!

Is there a shrink in the house!

Why? Could he stop me eating

Yeah! I can't eat on an empty stomch!

he obviously has not got a good woman to make him sunday lunch....

Well, you got one thing right in your statement, Beauty is only skin deep is a false statement. I prefer to believe Beauty comes from within or beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Also, they'd be no way I'd lose weight just to please some fickle/shallow male. IF people can't take me for what I am then that's there problem.

big is beautiful!!

Yep he would probably ban the Yorkshire puds - and sticky toffee pudding would be a definite no no!!

and who says he looks ten years younger than his age anyway, besides himself.

if women who ar big and r happy with themselves and in their skin,then what doe`s it matter what anyone else thinks???

now im dreaming of roast beef and yorkshire pudding lol loads of gravy and fluffy roasts mmmmmmm
this thread is making me hungry.....

"If it makes some people happier think of this next time you see a stunningly beautiful man or woman, imagine they have no bones and all that's left is a pile of blubber,skin,muscle and organs that kind of makes us all equal, just a genetic heap of cells."

You've just contradicted yourself right there (in fact, its full of contradictions). Those who are slightly or vastly overweight are just as you've described so they are equal too, no? Just a genetic heap of cells. Perhaps it would fare us all well to think its not the cells in the body that count, but the amount of *brain cells that are used??

And, besides, being overweight is not always down to over-eating and/or lack of exercise - how ignorant!!! Your tone implies they are over-indulgant and lazy. Not necessarily so.

I am not overweight by any stretch of the imagination but I feel what you have expressed is rude and prejudiced, i.e. refer back to *"brain cells".

Well i hope you find a boyfriend cos I think you have just buggerd your chances with the ladys!

You have just got to click on to some of his former posts - the guy is a total contradiction

Just re read the one about him telling lies about his age - well bully for you if you get away with it but who would continue a relationship with someone who couldnt even tell you his real age - so what else are you telling lies about then Alan.

Glad you've finally seen sense bunny. x Our bodies are only shells to retain our internal organs, so who cares what you look like?
saying that, my little bunny's got two advantages, one being the best looking person alive, and the other, a great personality! My ickle bunny x q=o)

I fear we may have a "Code Red" situation developing here, folks!!! Don't want to go down that road again do we? He just wants spit his venom and cause contention...............
We've said our bit, shall we just not feed this thread anymore?? Wadda ya say??
BYEEEEEEE....!!!

Well I am off to cook a nice homely dinner for my friends tonight and I shall raise a glass of good red wine to you Alan and toast your misfortune in living your life through your own type of rose coloured spectacles. If you judge every big/slightly big/older/elderley/not as young as you/not as fit as you/not as good looking as you person you meet then you will never be happy. Get real, pleezzz.