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I think it is called the 20 years older syndrome?

You come on a dating site, you have many choices; you join other sites your choices are expanded,,, suddenly you start thinking well I don’t like the style of his hair, well his eyes are tooo close together,, her teeth look crooked, until 20 years later, you are still here looking for Mr or Mrs right???????????????

I do not come on these sites very often, maybe once every two weeks or so, I believe sites like this are eroding away people’s ability to actually communicate effectively in a social environment.

I have always said you can tell a hell of a lot by looking into somebody’s eyes; And you can’t see into somebody’s eyes on a dating site.
You can read there words, but anybody with a modicum of intellect, can effectively portray themselves in something as short as a sentence.
In the right environment, and with the right audience, any person can fool anybody.


Games can always be played when there is no visual and animated representation of the player to evaluate?

I know what you mean, it does seem some people are just chatting for the hell of it and i wish people would realize that talking about sex with a complete stranger is a turn-off: if they want that why dont they go onto a pure sex site cause otherwise they are javascript:emot('');
confusedmasquerading as wanting a relationship when they dont.

hello apple, welcome to the forums sweetie, nice to meet you

I fully agree; there are plenty of 'playgrounds' out there for chatting about anything and everything.
Of course, it is necessary to chat first before dating but my impression was that dating sites were for dating and the sex forums were for talking about sex, web-cam sex etc (yep, I've been to a few and have many friends there) but I would like to meet someone special and I had rather hoped C.S. would help me out but this seems to be another forum site where young guys can chat up older women etc, then disappear again if they don't get cyber-sex.

I, too, am now guilty of just chatting willy-nilly as I get hurt far too easily .........

No, the young guys on here chat up the older women, and DO get cybersex and then disappear, if they don't get cybersex they stick around and chat up the next older or younger woman, in fact some of them have even been known to chat the emoticons up

Nearly pi***d my pants, then !! Sheesh,

Is there a thread here to find out why young guys are that way inclined?? Why aren't they out with a girlfriend or hanging out with friends ..... if they have any.


Anyway, good afternoon and I hope your day is going well.

Hey there sealander and I'm glad I made you !

Good point you made there though about why youger guys are that way inclined. Don't think there is a thread so maybe me and you should make one and see if they will explain themselves ..lol

Yes thanks it's going okay now, wasn't so good this morning when I fell off my bike in 3 feet deep floods, at least my bike got a really good clean and came up smelling of roses, err I mean rats

Hope your day is going well

Sorry to hear about your mishap, I hope you are okay. And, I hope the flooding is contained away from where you live; I hate to think of anyone whose house or flat gets flooded, it must be heart-breaking.

I am very serious

well i;m serious but it just dosn;t seem to work like that on these sites, its a slow build up but hey its fun whist gettin to know people,love will come when your least exspecting it honey,patience is a virtue

like your style khan proper sweet talker

Hi Everyone

Just joined the site a couple of days ago. I recently returned to the UK after a long absence of 43 years and i've been reading the forums and i have to say...i split my sides at times....u guys are great fun....keep up the good reading

Hi carrie and welcome to the madhouse

hi carrie let the laughter begin

welcome carry, my name is chris, im the one who keeps order in the house, with out me this place would be a dirty minded filthy place,

hahahahahah thats a cracker your the instigator

Absolutely correct!

I agree with Chris.

thankyou my friend

are you telling fibs again chris