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There has been over the last few weeks resentment by some members. That they have not liked certain issues which have arisen.
on a few threads.
But the site itself offers CURRENT issues and POLITICS.
This in turn can at times lead to displays of bad language. I for one do not endorse bad language.. But it happens..

So you now have the opportunity to choose this type f THREAD or dismiss the idea. I for one enjoy good discussion .


at times i find it entertaining. But others object. possible thru bad language being employed if things are not going there way in a heated argement. and exchange.
i think common sense must prevail And allow this type of THREAD to be in place.
Remember you dont have to visit if your easily offended. Myself im a bit teflon coated but not all are. YOU DECIDE

Its up to the individual whether to post in threads. If they don't like a thread content they need not post or even read. It is up to these people to open a new thread where the feel able to post.

Any sort censorship is in the hands of the moderators

yes i undestand you but threads have been popping up ad has led to confusion. you ae rigt . ppl who dont want to venture in dont.


Next thing they dont like whats said then cry foul.

But some venture in just thru curiousity.

i dont buy cigarettes if i dont smoke. its like going to a concert and everybody starts singing.

I agree

By the way, I'll be back to hand out gestapo and fan badges a.s.a.p

I'm ill with food poisoning at the moment so out of action for a day or so but I'll be back

ZELLA were my badge???? sorry to hear your sick girl. You hav.nt been eating KEBABS have you??? stay with fish and chips

Is this after you've done my club badges?

Hi Don , there`s no point in a platform these people on here will only report you , their the one`s that don`t like other`s having their say , i take it you`v had a gag put on you to , at least i know my pedigree is 100% English .

I was going to do your club badges first and then the rest of them but looks as if most of your fan club have left here anyway. Also, one of the other 3 seems to have disappeared

I think that there's a difference between stating our opinions and debating in a rational manner as opposed to using personally abusive, swearing and threatening verbal behaviour to someone who has a different opinion

It's only expected that people will report when they see this behaviour.. also racism/discrimination is wrong anyway.

There you go already in your post wittering about your pedigree being 100% english

SO IT`S OK FOR YOUR FRIENDS IE SEABISCUIT , BROARDSTAIRS , SOME OF THE WOMEN TO SWEAR , THE THREATENING VERBAL WAS STARTED BY SEABISCUIT I ONLY RESPONDED AND THEN BROARDSTAIRS STARTED AND THE WOMEN , BUT WILL OVER LOOK THAT . YOU HAVE ALSO LABLED ME A RACIST IM NOT THIS IS A SMALL COUNTRY AND WE CAN NOT KEEP LETTING THESE PEOPLE BECAUSE ONE DAY IT WILL EXPLODE

hello my dear WEATHERD. Yes you may have a point there.
i now construct childrens stories for these ppl


They love it. they sit around there computer thrilled by the WOMBLES and MR BENN>
The only time they tell the moderator is when BILLand BEN fall out with WEEED .

and you have the cheek to suggest I keep things friendly - your brain is addled pal - you mistake humour for bitterness and expect people to stand by and take it - no, of course not, your objective is to 'goad' well, objective met - you have goaded me - and I dont come out with childrens stories

We already have a platform for debate, however, I dont think demeaning remarks or personal jibes are taken too seriously in intelligent ones - they are usually reserved for the playground.

personally i dont think you have ever left the PLAYGROUND.


I just dont understand were you get these political aspiration from??


has there been some form of TRAUMA in your life. ?????

Eat the chip rather than wear it on your shoulder fella.. Oh, just so you know, you called me a knobhead as soon as I disagreed with your opinion..

Its every one has the right on the forum to report any thing they find offensive. It is then up to the moderators to decide whether action will be taken. So if you feel that you haven't written any thing offensive you have nothing to worry about.

And as for being 100 % English i doubt anyone in Britain can say their 100% English / welsh /Scottish. As you would probably find if you followed your family tree back.

People don't even have to use foul language to be offensive
As CS say, report, don't support. CS are the judge and Jury

I find this post so ridiculously childish. It's also so obvious in the context you've replied that you have not really understood my post in the first place

Where do I actually say YOU are a racist? Where do I mention I'm friends on here with the names you gave as an example?

Seabiscuit just said it was you who started the crap language first. Which is neither here there to me as I find all this " Who called someone a name first" ..very chidish on anyones part anyway.

As for your inference that you were ganged up on by some of the members. I think somehow you've made a mistake and got it the wrong way around and actually meant to mention how you and your sidekicks ganged up on the scottish guy every time he posted.

"Good luck" on the dating side of things by the way

Because the way certain aspects of your persona show through
on here I think you are going to need all the luck you can get

i do hope ZELLE that im not one of the so called GANG.

. i wriote childrens stories as you well know also study Theology.

yes i do take your point tho regarding swearing. Im off like a shot to the moderator if i see even the word BLINKIN.


ive to be called the unblemished from now on.

i don't pretend to understand the Q fully but i just stumbled upon this part of the site yesterday and i gotta say i spent a couple hours reading many of the polls and i really enjoyed myself!

also i would like to say that most of the people in here seem to be really cool and level headed

i tried to get into threaded coversations a few years ago but i could not get past all the vulgar languge and flamers (i think thats what they called them) i have not seen that here and i think i will be sticking around for a while!!! i'ts just a shame i don't have the internet at home, i hate the two hour limit at the library and the filter software that won't let you access myspace or any kind of IM system!!

I think he was asking if people wanted to have topics for discussion or just light hearted banter type threads. Also, if we did want the debateable topics, should we only have one thread in which to debate them within. However, it's not up to us if we have 1,2 or even 6 threads to debate serious topics in as we don't make the rules, we only abide by them so I somehow had the idea his idea wouldn't really have worked.

Anyway, welcome to the forums and don't worry too much about only having online access for a couple of hours per day as most people have such busy lifestyles. They often only manage to find the time and inspiration to post every so many hours anyway