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I sure as heck need cheering up at the moment. It seems that one problem occurs after another. I have to get rid of my dog tomorrow and am feeling really pee'd off . I also have my divorce pending then my house was flooded last year in July & still nothing's been sorted out. Added to that I have a kidney stone the size of a bloody meteor that needs operating on .

Lord knows if I was an Horse I would be in the bloody glue factory by now !!!

Someone have a heart and please cheer me up by either giving me a darn good slapping or just a sympathetic ear 1

Aw you poor dear, maybe you need both, a darn good slapping and a sympathetic ear!!!!

Just on a real downer Dizzy . It all seems to happen at once ; does that happen to you ?

yes but in what order???

di

well i dont know the OP but i understand
ive had a kidney stone but i know its nothing
compared to a man having one
but i also know...

men dont have babies



that was intended to cheer you up

well no worries
this too shall pass

Well they say bad things come in 3s... in your case 4s. But it can't get much worse so things can only get better from now on. Think positive and you will be fine.



Big cuddle

What can you say?

Don't let the bastards grind you down mate, keep your chin up!

My Mum has always said bad things happen because better things are just around the corner.

Thankyou Mindful....

I really hope so !

Cheers ....Seabiscuit sound advice & likewise Clarabo. I am just unable to see that positive attitude you all seem to have at the moment .

Yes it does, I have what I call Black days, these are allowed, if on the 3rd day of getting up in that mood, I put upbeat music on at full and dance round my living room while cleaning and moping the floor, then I make myself whatever I what to eat (diet is a dirty word) even been known to change bed linen so that I have something to look forward to.
Keep your chin up, if I told you my problems you would end up laughing

I know I'm only a young-un but have my share of sh1t thrown at me, been at my lowest ebb.. It will get better in time mate, just gotta get through this period. Like I say, keep your chin up.

Sunshine always follows the rain.

im up for seng Di dance

i bet she is light on her feet

just think about that
youll be cheered immediately

I can feel a grin coming on ; oops just wind ! SORRY ..

with your luck lately that wind must be rank

You really dont know how true you are ......

don't put a downer on him MF we are trying to cheer him up

i suggested we all watch you dance...?

and i thot i was being funny

Angus - I'm in no means religious but if I ever need cheering up or inspiring I have a read of this..

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

I have no problem with that, as long as you don't mind me giving you a duster

Wow ... What an inspiring and uplifting set of words. Your right mate we all need our moments of self pity ( minds now ) however there are others out there less fortunate than ourselves who take it on the chin on a daily basis & still get up brush themselves off and get on with life as best they can. Working as an Ambulanceman I see this everyday and I should shut my gob right now whinging about my pathetic issues that are solvable .
Thanks for that mate ! Appreciate it.

Frustration happens to each and every one of us and I am sure that we all have what it takes in us to brake that self pity and crack on with yer life. You have all been kind and helpful with what you have said and tirul I am gratful to you all.....