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jinty72 bathgate, Lothian, Scotland UK
Tue May 20, 2008 1:59 PM CST : HELP!! I need some advice from both a male and a female point of view
heres what i would do i would confront him and see what he says u never know it could be innocennt but more than likely not but u tell him if hes planning to meet someone else to break it off with ur friend or u will tell her what u have found i would even copy his profile and paste it into a word document for proof let me know what u decinde to do xx
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lincoln_lass lincoln, Lincolnshire, England UK
Wed Jun 4, 2008 6:04 AM CST : HELP!! I need some advice from both a male and a female point of view
Tell him first, in a light hearted way that he obviously has forgotten to delete or amend his profile!

If he doesn't amend or delete, then you can tell the Mrs.
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chenga thetford, Norfolk, England UK
Tue Jul 1, 2008 7:43 AM CST : HELP!! I need some advice from both a male and a female point of view
your right to look after yor friends so tell her,if its innocent there wont be a problem.wave
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theolderwoman York, North Yorkshire, England UK
Fri Jul 4, 2008 4:20 PM CST : HELP!! I need some advice from both a male and a female point of view
Well I was in a similar situation when a friend and I found our other friends husband online acting as an escort and there were endless scantily clad women which he had photographed in her house (we recognised her staircase) and we felt we had to tell her. Of course she was in floods of tears when we pointed her in the direction of her husbands escort adverts and photos of him naked and in the act with other women but she was very grateful we did and they are now divorced and she is much happier with another man than that prat. She did not waste more time on him than was needed.
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sunny38 london, Inner London, England UK
Wed Oct 15, 2008 6:20 PM CST : HELP!! I need some advice from both a male and a female point of view
hi, i am a bloke and i know men cant control their urges especially if one don't get it much at home they tend to look else where for more intimate fun which their partner dont give them,so maybe his girlfriend not making him happy,so i think you should ask you friend how their sexual relationship is.If it is fine then tell her if it is not then maybe have a word with the guy and find out what the problem is and tell himm to sort it out or you gonna tell on him.I hope this is of any help.Chow!!!
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mike1937 Broadstairs, Kent, England UK
Wed Oct 15, 2008 7:41 PM CST : HELP!! I need some advice from both a male and a female point of view
SueSeeksGent: The sado that I am, I was trawling through the singles websites, perchance to meet "the one", when I came across a profile of a guy who is the boyfriend of a very good friend of mine and they are now living together. He stated on his profile that he was single and looking for Miss Right and that he had viewed the site that same day.

The advice needed is what should I do??????? My initial reaction is to tell my friend, but just wondered what others thought.

I know they are due to go on a well deserved holliday at the end of May with another two close friends and don't know if I should put it off till after that or tell the couple that they are going on holliday with???

Please help I would like to get a male and a female viewpoint and then come to a decision. Thanks to all who reply.


Hi Sue
Suggestions - Why not
1. Get copies of his stuff on here,
2. Tell her you think she ought to know this and
3. Show her all the evidence if you are long term friends -
4. Then back away and let her decide.

BTW
5. Why not open up the age gap for someone more mature but still with a brain above his waist.

6. Just another thought lips

Mike Dennis EX RAF erk and qualified Mech development Engineer retired who does NOT threat ladies like that but blatantly advertises
Broadstairs
Kent wink
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