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Hi,

I think you should get yourself into some sort of training for your self esteem, then, you will see, women will like to get to know you and then, only then, when you got enough self esteem and self confidence, then you will be able to keep that special woman.

But if you hang around and sob about that you don't find a woman, well, then you will never find the right one, because women want a man with confidence and self esteem.

Your thread here sounds like self pity.... I don't think that you would like to meet a woman who pities herself either, or do you ? That is a sign of not being able to handle one's own life, not to mention a life with someone else together !

Those are my two pence.... take it for what it's worth, but it is meant in a good constructional way of critique.

Cheers

Me.

I believe that there are many genuine people both men and women here who are looking for the same things.

Unfortunately a few bad people cause heartache and mistrust because they have cheated on their partner(s).

My thoughts: take it slow, truly get to know the person and their character traits, their friends & family. I think that too many of us rush "love" and then realize down the road that there were signs along the path that we should have heeded.

Good luck.