Older women aren't interested in younger guys?

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CALLUMAGIC London, Outer London, England UK
Hi people,I posted a thread earier today about how lately i have found myself in a bit of a pickle,instead of looking at the girls my own age whilst at the pubs/clubs i find myself studying the older females(if theres any of them around) It's got quite bad lately and its got to the stage where its stopping me having a relationship(not sex life)with young attractive girls.
From the response earlier i found women really arent interested in younger guys and it's got me a bit down in the dumps...Anyone have any advice for a guy on the 1st step of the ladder??
Much appreciated!



Gemini1972 Leeds, West Yorkshire, England UK
CALLUMAGIC: Hi people,I posted a thread earier today about how lately i have found myself in a bit of a pickle,instead of looking at the girls my own age whilst at the pubs/clubs i find myself studying the older females(if theres any of them around) It's got quite bad lately and its got to the stage where its stopping me having a relationship(not sex life)with young attractive girls.
From the response earlier i found women really arent interested in younger guys and it's got me a bit down in the dumps...Anyone have any advice for a guy on the 1st step of the ladder??
Much appreciated!


well im one of the said 'older women' ( if u call 35 old that isdunno )

Are older woman not attractive? only the 'young' woman out there are? ( thats how it has come across as anyways) i dont think i look like an old bag for 35, in fact i think i look pretty damn good and could give any young bird a run for her money lol laugh wink

If im honest, i prefer younger guys but thats just my own personal preference, some young women prefer older men, i guess it works both ways.

Just dont look at women for their age, you could be missing out on that 'special someone' if you do.





CALLUMAGIC London, Outer London, England UK
Gemini1972: well im one of the said 'older women' ( if u call 35 old that is )

Are older woman not attractive? only the 'young' woman out there are? ( thats how it has come across as anyways) i dont think i look like an old bag for 35, in fact i think i look pretty damn good and could give any young bird a run for her money lol

If im honest, i prefer younger guys but thats just my own personal preference, some young women prefer older men, i guess it works both ways.

Just dont look at women for their age, you could be missing out on that 'special someone' if you do.


Thanks Gemini Finally a bit of posotive feedback,Older women to me are beautiful not attractive like i coud see myself being with an 'older' woman in a relationship but only a young girl in the bed really to put it blunt lol.
Your looking extremely good for your age i must admit and im glad your being honest an confessing you like some younger guys,I try not to look at girls for there age but those extra years just get my clock ticking it seems!



Gemini1972 Leeds, West Yorkshire, England UK
CALLUMAGIC: Thanks Gemini Finally a bit of posotive feedback,Older women to me are beautiful not attractive like i coud see myself being with an 'older' woman in a relationship but only a young girl in the bed really to put it blunt lol.
Your looking extremely good for your age i must admit and im glad your being honest an confessing you like some younger guys,I try not to look at girls for there age but those extra years just get my clock ticking it seems!


your welcome

well push the boat out and be with a an older woman in a relationship and 1 that u could sleep with as well.....hell you might even like it wink laugh

seriously like i said before just go for someone u feel attracted towards, regardless of age, age is but a number after all lol laugh



CALLUMAGIC London, Outer London, England UK
Gemini1972: your welcome

well push the boat out and be with a an older woman in a relationship and 1 that u could sleep with as well.....hell you might even like it

seriously like i said before just go for someone u feel attracted towards, regardless of age, age is but a number after all lol


Its hard to find a woman who would put up with a guy like me gemini i mean id have priorities before her thats why im looking for an inteligent casual think at the moment.I know id like It ;) If age is nothing but a number why have you not bin swept off ur feet by a young charmer yet? all you would have to do is wink :P pretty eyes



Gemini1972 Leeds, West Yorkshire, England UK
CALLUMAGIC: If age is nothing but a number why have you not bin swept off ur feet by a young charmer yet? all you would have to do is wink :P pretty eyes


Who says i havnt already lol wink



CALLUMAGIC London, Outer London, England UK
Gemini1972: Who says i havnt already lol

Thats a shame,They as good looking as me :P?
Im a gemini you know Junes my birth month,Yours?



Gemini1972 Leeds, West Yorkshire, England UK
CALLUMAGIC: Thats a shame,They as good looking as me :P?
Im a gemini you know Junes my birth month,Yours?


They = Plural lol laugh


Theres only the 1 thank you very much lol wink laugh

My birthday's a week on Mon, so June thumbs up



CALLUMAGIC London, Outer London, England UK
Lol well you could make it plural ;) mwhaha,
Not long at all...youll be even better looking for your at 36 lol



Gemini1972 Leeds, West Yorkshire, England UK
CALLUMAGIC: Lol well you could make it plural ;) mwhaha,
Not long at all...youll be even better looking for your at 36 lol



haha just a 1 man woman i am wink laugh

well the wrinkles haven't appeared yet so theres hope lol laugh



CALLUMAGIC London, Outer London, England UK
Gemini1972: haha just a 1 man woman i am

well the wrinkles haven't appeared yet so theres hope lol


Fair doos ... Ooo don't get me thinking about your skin all over..it just puts me in the wrong mood for a guy whos alone lol



Gemini1972 Leeds, West Yorkshire, England UK
CALLUMAGIC: Fair doos ... Ooo don't get me thinking about your skin all over..it just puts me in the wrong mood for a guy whos alone lol


Dont blame me laugh

i only mentioned me wrinkles.....but if thats what floats ur boat well............

rolling on the floor laughing



kenez14 raleigh, North Carolina USA
I think older women are attarcted to younger guys. Just like younger guys are attracted to older women. Depends on your luck...Kepp on trying mate and you'll be surprised..

Hope it answers ur questions
retroprincess leek , Staffordshire, England UK
one of the reasons you might not be getting one of the older females is because you write here as if your odd to look at older females , and talk of young attractive girls ,like someone older cant be attractive , im 36 and consider myself as attractive as when i was in my twentys , and i mostly trend to go for younger guys but only the ones who like me for who i am and not my age
dolphin1 Chester, Cheshire, England UK
Mature woman are definately into younger guys - just look at the stars who have younger boyfriends - carol mcgivern of loose women has a fiance more than 20 years her junior - and he is georgeous. I think older women who say they are not interested in younger men are kidding themselves - maybe they dont have the confidence? End of the day does age really matter? If there is an attraction then go for it. Many older women I am sure would be more than flatteredhmmm hmmm motorcycle good luck



hassanalqbain leeds, West Yorkshire, England UK
i wish younger girls were interested in me its always older of very over loaded woman !



Zellarrone1 Hull, Humberside, England UK
hassanalqbain: i wish younger girls were interested in me its always older of very over loaded woman !
What you mean overloaded? confused

Overweight or they have too much dosh? conversing
Clarissa153 Milford Haven, Dyfed, Wales UK
I am 56 (well 57 on the 15th) and i have loads of younger guys on the sites wanting to get to know me. Even had a 19 year old virgin who wanted me to teach him!!! I said no of course, age is just a number people keep telling me and many i know are very happy with the woman being a lot older. It all depends on your outlook & what you are looking for in a relationship. Older women these days are far moe younger looking than what they were years ago. An attraction to someone does not stop because of their age and i get on better with younger people anyway when it comes to my social life. if you are attracted to older woman you should go out with one and find out if it is what you want por not. It will be the only way to get this problem out of your system
CALLUMAGIC: Hi people,I posted a thread earier today about how lately i have found myself in a bit of a pickle,instead of looking at the girls my own age whilst at the pubs/clubs i find myself studying the older females(if theres any of them around) It's got quite bad lately and its got to the stage where its stopping me having a relationship(not sex life)with young attractive girls.
From the response earlier i found women really arent interested in younger guys and it's got me a bit down in the dumps...Anyone have any advice for a guy on the 1st step of the ladder??
Much appreciated!
gussi Marburg, Hessen Germany
Clarissa153: I am 56 (well 57 on the 15th) and i have loads of younger guys on the sites wanting to get to know me. Even had a 19 year old virgin who wanted me to teach him!!! I said no of course, age is just a number people keep telling me and many i know are very happy with the woman being a lot older. It all depends on your outlook & what you are looking for in a relationship. Older women these days are far moe younger looking than what they were years ago. An attraction to someone does not stop because of their age and i get on better with younger people anyway when it comes to my social life. if you are attracted to older woman you should go out with one and find out if it is what you want por not. It will be the only way to get this problem out of your system


very well said. thumbs up thumbs up bouquet



roseuk Preston, Lancashire, England UK
Sadly I find the only thing they are interested in is sex! its not that we are not interested in the guy just not in the idea of having sex to notch up on someones bedpost, that they bedded an older woman. Hope this helps.




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