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if i ever send a message on here.why is it that so few people reply to what you ask.unless you are speaking to a woman friend.all men seem to want to say is are you on yahoo? or whatever, have you any more photos, or seedy suggestions and dirty talk, not everyone, but the majority, is it just me, who gets mostly bad eggs?

true the world is full of no marks and not just men

i can read yer..i can aslo write and colour in without going over the lines

I am quite lucky, I have some good male penpals on here and we talk about general things and astrology, music and our kids etc.

I've had a few messages from sad acts but I block them and delete them straightaway

pick the words that is very important
do not make a big issue of it even the contents are bad
the connecting singles can analyse the bad words for us
we are in a website,time,care,objective to attend for many of us
some do not careof how can people read ,that it
some wants to get some glamour,fame,etc
see how many people response on your forum across the world
critics/good/bad/part of life
ask views of others
we are spending too much time on this website ,why?
so that people can read of our ideas including those of the people of the connecting singles staff in ordre to improve our ways of sending messages to others

is the above message a joke it doesnt make sense or answer the question

I have been lucky and had some great email conversations about life etc. I think Ben was saying choose your words when you send emails, to invite the sort of response you want, and we are protected to some extent by CS monitoring.

Good luck in your searching...

battle of words for a good cause
liberty of expression not offending
we cannot share the same opinion
we got to say something in this site
expecting lots of shy people to comments

Mate.. No offence, but.... What?

no offence but i do not understand any of bens posts or replies are they some kind of joke to wind people up

I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU MEAN, ALL I SEEM TO GET ARE COMPLETE TOSSERS WHO WANNA TALK FILTH TO ME AND SO ON.

ALSO WHATS WITH ALL THESE DUDES FROM FAR AWAY COUNTRIES MAILING ME? AS IF IM GONNA JET OFF TO INDIA TO GO FOR COFFEE!!

ya never know hun, ive got a dudet who decided to jet off from the u.s.a to have coffie with me hehehehe


shes been here for a month already th and im running out of coffie

This "can people read?" issue is something I've pondered over many times and have put to use. I usually state certain facts about myself in my profile and if I get a mail that fails to refer to anything I mention in my profile, then I'll bin it.

A common one is I state that I'm looking to meet and hear from UK residents only and very often I'd get many mails from various ladies not in the UK. I have contacted ladies who claimed to live near me only to chat with them to find they don't live where they say on their profile. I instantly give them the boot because how can one build foundations and trust upon a lie?

Not ALL us men are oblivious and ignorant. I make sure I read profiles or mails and mail or reply accordingly. I just think if one is oblivious to what somebody says or writes, then they're not really that interested in the first place.

i quite agree with the guy above me and i wasnt meaning that all men are guilty of this there are bads eggs in both sexes

its s slippery slope, so take the good and ignore the bad

Well.I am considered a male,so why don't you try to mail to me and we can have a conversation! just ask nicely(lol)

a very nice offer but im too old for you best of luck anyway

freedom of expression if that is it im with you!

It is dead easy, just do not respond and delete them.

Just block them out.