have any dating nightmares

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mrsmiles4444 Colonial Beach, Virginia USA

Mon Sep 8, 2008 12:36 PM CST : have any dating nightmares?

I have. Once I made the mistake, and yes it was a mistake, of corresponding with someone who had no pic posted.
STUPID, STUPID, STUPID, Al.
but my mistake was not in corresponding with this person, it was allowing it to go on, without requesting a pic.

OK, so here we are now talking on the phone, and she sounded like a nightingale. the sweetest, softest, sexiest voice, a man could ever dream of. so my mind got thrown for a loop, and I forgot all about the pic. " how could someone with such a voice, NOT be attractive." I thought.

Then the day came for us to meet, and I picked out this fabulous Carribean restaurant called Mango Mike's.
It was the middle of june, and when I met this woman in the parking lot, she wore a dress that went down to her ankles. " No biggy." I thought.

Something about her did not feel right. her hug was strong, and her voice now seemed to be not as soft or sexy.

being a trooper, I always go throgh with my date. I'm here, might as well make the best of it, even thogh I knew right away, I was not going to see this woman ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, again.

we were shown to our table, and of course it had to be right in the middle of the floor. where EVERYONE could see us. she proceeded to take off this sort of sweater she wore, and dam if she had muscles like Hercules. an Adams apple to boot.

her first words to me were, " well? what do you think?" I almst choked on my drink and avoided the question so as not to embarress her in public, but dam was it hard biting my tongue.

It appeared to me, I was having dinner with a man, and the eyes that burned the back of my head from everyone watching us, confirmed my suspissions.
I can't say for sure if she was or was not a man, but there's a gut feeling in me that is rarely wrong, and I could have bet my life right there on the spot that she was not of the female gender.

dinner was inhaled and we parted ways admorably. she emailed me inviting me to her place over the weekend. " OH PLEASE!"

today, I'd like to add, I have no fear of talking to, or emailing anyone without a pic posted. I just learned a valuable lesson way back when, and it's forever on my mind.

what nigtmares do you all have, and please don't tell me you've had none.....................this is an internet dating site.................

Seabiscuit Plymouth, Devon, England UK

Mon Sep 8, 2008 5:08 PM CST : have any dating nightmares?

Your a bigger man than me... As soon as I saw the Adams apple I'd have been gone, no question!.

Not had what you would call a 'dating' nightmare but did have an absolute mare of one once.. I was on a site similar to this a wile back and got talking to a girl who lives fairly close, we spoke for a few months then decided to take the plunge and meet up, so we met in a little town called Dawlish, pretty much in the middle from where we lived, went for some food and a drink all was going well. We then decided to get a B&B for the night, so the night just got even better!

Anyway, morning comes, shower breakfast etc.. Get to the train station and go our separate ways both in the knowledge that we've had an awesome night and would see each other again.. Few more days pass with us still talking a lot. I log on to Facebook and find she's been tagged in a number of photographs. Now I know what your thinking 'whats the problem with that'.. But these photographs weren't normal photos! Oh no, these were photos taken 3 weeks! before we started talking... These were photos of her wedding day!! So I phoned her up in a rage to find out what she was playing at being that as far as I knew she was single (wasn't wearing a ring when we met), she told me that she wanted one last fling, but wanted to see me again.. She got told where to stuff it!

Few more days go by with no contact then I get a text message saying 'I'm pregnant'. My arse dropped! So again I phone her (this time a lot more civilized) and make it very clear that IF she is pregnant and it's mine then I would do the right thing but she could forget any chance of anything more (as in relationship with her). So I offer to go the doctors with her, face her husband and explain, also explain to the family etc.. But she was reluctant for me to do that, obviously I was suspicious so asked her to do a test in front of me (fair request I thought) but again she refused.. Then all of a sudden I get a phone call from her friend telling me she's had a miscarriage! But she couldn't tell me as she was so upset, all the while I could hear her in the background laughing an giggling with her mates in the background! Have never spoken to her since and never will! Although I still get phone calls, texts and emails from her now asking to see me!

Made me very very very wary of meeting people over the internet, I can tell you!

Cutechick Newcastle Upon Tyne, Northumberland, England UK

Mon Sep 8, 2008 6:23 PM CST : have any dating nightmares?

OMG you men are so unlucky hahahaha. I have never had a problem like that before but I do understand what you mean about not seeing pics of people, I arranged a date once with someone I had been chatting to for months without seeing what he looked like, he also sounded nice on the phone etc. When the day come I seen him standing waiting and I am not joking he was a cross between rick waller and the hunchback I would have been so embarressed so me being mean I kind of took a dart up the nearest back alley and went the long way home, nasty I know but I didnt fancy being centre of attention in the middle of a restaraunt, Plus he probs would have ate my meal and his and probs the people next to us

silverfox bangor, Gwynedd, Wales UK

Mon Sep 8, 2008 7:58 PM CST : have any dating nightmares?

well , iv not a got to say

im so sorry , please smile

mrsmiles4444 Colonial Beach, Virginia USA

Mon Sep 8, 2008 9:41 PM CST : have any dating nightmares?

Seabiscuit: Your a bigger man than me... As soon as I saw the Adams apple I'd have been gone, no question!.

Not had what you would call a 'dating' nightmare but did have an absolute mare of one once.. I was on a site similar to this a wile back and got talking to a girl who lives fairly close, we spoke for a few months then decided to take the plunge and meet up, so we met in a little town called Dawlish, pretty much in the middle from where we lived, went for some food and a drink all was going well. We then decided to get a B&B for the night, so the night just got even better!

Anyway, morning comes, shower breakfast etc.. Get to the train station and go our separate ways both in the knowledge that we've had an awesome night and would see each other again.. Few more days pass with us still talking a lot. I log on to Facebook and find she's been tagged in a number of photographs. Now I know what your thinking 'whats the problem with that'.. But these photographs weren't normal photos! Oh no, these were photos taken 3 weeks! before we started talking... These were photos of her wedding day!! So I phoned her up in a rage to find out what she was playing at being that as far as I knew she was single (wasn't wearing a ring when we met), she told me that she wanted one last fling, but wanted to see me again.. She got told where to stuff it!

Few more days go by with no contact then I get a text message saying 'I'm pregnant'. My arse dropped! So again I phone her (this time a lot more civilized) and make it very clear that IF she is pregnant and it's mine then I would do the right thing but she could forget any chance of anything more (as in relationship with her). So I offer to go the doctors with her, face her husband and explain, also explain to the family etc.. But she was reluctant for me to do that, obviously I was suspicious so asked her to do a test in front of me (fair request I thought) but again she refused.. Then all of a sudden I get a phone call from her friend telling me she's had a miscarriage! But she couldn't tell me as she was so upset, all the while I could hear her in the background laughing an giggling with her mates in the background! Have never spoken to her since and never will! Although I still get phone calls, texts and emails from her now asking to see me!

Made me very very very wary of meeting people over the internet, I can tell you!

well seabiscuit, least you KNEW for SURE your friend there was a woman......................

I couldn't say I did..........

Funny now that I think back on it.

romy999 london, Outer London, England UK

Tue Sep 9, 2008 4:52 AM CST : have any dating nightmares?

oh my god, how awful, but who do you think you were at first talking to on the phone? did the he/she man have the lovely voice, you so liked? whas it this person, or do you think there were two people involved. although its an hilarious story, it was a pretty cruel trick to play on a straight guy, looking for a straight woman.

mrsmiles4444 Colonial Beach, Virginia USA

Tue Sep 9, 2008 5:46 AM CST : have any dating nightmares?

romy999: oh my god, how awful, but who do you think you were at first talking to on the phone? did the he/she man have the lovely voice, you so liked? whas it this person, or do you think there were two people involved. although its an hilarious story, it was a pretty cruel trick to play on a straight guy, looking for a straight woman.

Yes I do belive there were 2 people involved there. to go form a soft, sexy, wonderful voice to, well, a more deeper masculine voice is not cool at all. Lesson well learned...........

Seabiscuit Plymouth, Devon, England UK

Tue Sep 9, 2008 7:16 AM CST : have any dating nightmares?

mrsmiles4444: Yes I do belive there were 2 people involved there. to go form a soft, sexy, wonderful voice to, well, a more deeper masculine voice is not cool at all. Lesson well learned...........

Did you not twig when 'it' asked to meet you at the Blue Oyster bar?

mrsmiles4444 Colonial Beach, Virginia USA

Tue Sep 9, 2008 12:35 PM CST : have any dating nightmares?

Seabiscuit: Did you not twig when 'it' asked to meet you at the Blue Oyster bar?

when "it" did, my mind was closed for recognizing a scam when I heard one............

brunetteteen18 Mansfield, Nottinghamshire, England UK

Tue Jun 2, 2009 4:45 PM CST : have any dating nightmares?

Mine was the worst thing and it did put me off the internet for months.

So anyway, id just turned 18 and thought id join a few dating sites to get the ball rolling. So i got loads of messages but one from a really attractive guy stuck out to me so we started talking and it'd been like 2 months and i just thought what the hell man lets meet and see how we go, so we set a time, date and a place to meet.

I turned up a few minutes early so i could have a cigarette to calm my nerves, i was sitting on a bench just about finished my fag when all of a sudden i get this tap on my back,so i turn around and theres this pakistani guy standing behind me so i asked him if i could help him with anything? and he was like...'Are you danielle?'...I was like SHIIT!!, i was like your not the guy im meeting are you?, and he just stood there looking at me and then he shrugged and he said 'my mate lent me his pictures so i could get a date' and i was like god help me lol.

So i thought id see it through and seem polite but i knew in my soul i didn't want anything to do with this guy ever again, so at the end of the date he moved in for a kiss but i jumped back and he was like, you not want a realtionship then?..I just laughed and said 'stick it up ya A*rse ya lyin' scumbag lol' and since then ive been soo cronically weary of people i always ask for some kinda proof like goin on webcam so i can see it is them and not someone deceiving me as usual.

geminiman61 nottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK

Tue Jun 2, 2009 5:31 PM CST : have any dating nightmares?

TBH i haven't had a real nightmare like some of these listed.
Hiya Danielle Brunette I'm from sutton/skegby

I met this woman about 5/6 weeks back and i did see a picture of her but just her face we chatted on the phone daily i knew she was a bit weighty she said she had once been a model and had been a Miss Sheffield and she was quite pretty she had a nice car some money and a great personality and we were growing closer i made her laugh she had a good head on her but when we met she was much bigger than what i thought well i said i wanted her to let me know she got back safe and she did i said i would ring the next morning so i got up and was on the way to the shop for some credit she had text me saying she had had a great night then another text and another then all the accusations why don't i be honest why am i being ignorant she knew i had no credit but her insecurities made her think i wouldn't return her calls when i put the credit in i said if she had been patient and waited for a reply i would have as soon as the phone had credit then i said because you started with the accusations i don't need it and i don't want to be in touch i know everyone has some insecurities but don't assume the reason why listen to the truth.

Sounds like you didn't need to do the crocodile Dundee test mate

sounds like you were very lucky i would have confronted him/her no doubt about it

ally76 Harlow, Essex, England UK

Tue Jun 2, 2009 6:22 PM CST : have any dating nightmares?

This sort of thing irks me and puts people off, you only get found out in the end if you lie about your profile and send fake photos.

jojo69 Birmingham, but from Liverpool, West Midlands, England UK

Tue Jun 2, 2009 6:25 PM CST : have any dating nightmares?

ally76: This sort of thing irks me and puts people off, you only get found out in the end if you lie about your profile and send fake photos.

Damn right!!

stranger007 elstree, Hertfordshire, England UK

Tue Jun 2, 2009 6:26 PM CST : have any dating nightmares?

mrsmiles4444: I have. Once I made the mistake, and yes it was a mistake, of corresponding with someone who had no pic posted.
STUPID, STUPID, STUPID, Al.
but my mistake was not in corresponding with this person, it was allowing it to go on, without requesting a pic.

OK, so here we are now talking on the phone, and she sounded like a nightingale. the sweetest, softest, sexiest voice, a man could ever dream of. so my mind got thrown for a loop, and I forgot all about the pic. " how could someone with such a voice, NOT be attractive." I thought.

Then the day came for us to meet, and I picked out this fabulous Carribean restaurant called Mango Mike's.
It was the middle of june, and when I met this woman in the parking lot, she wore a dress that went down to her ankles. " No biggy." I thought.

Something about her did not feel right. her hug was strong, and her voice now seemed to be not as soft or sexy.

being a trooper, I always go throgh with my date. I'm here, might as well make the best of it, even thogh I knew right away, I was not going to see this woman ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, again.

we were shown to our table, and of course it had to be right in the middle of the floor. where EVERYONE could see us. she proceeded to take off this sort of sweater she wore, and dam if she had muscles like Hercules. an Adams apple to boot.

her first words to me were, " well? what do you think?" I almst choked on my drink and avoided the question so as not to embarress her in public, but dam was it hard biting my tongue.

It appeared to me, I was having dinner with a man, and the eyes that burned the back of my head from everyone watching us, confirmed my suspissions.
I can't say for sure if she was or was not a man, but there's a gut feeling in me that is rarely wrong, and I could have bet my life right there on the spot that she was not of the female gender.

dinner was inhaled and we parted ways admorably. she emailed me inviting me to her place over the weekend. " OH PLEASE!"today, I'd like to add, I have no fear of talking to, or emailing anyone without a pic posted. I just learned a valuable lesson way back when, and it's forever on my mind.

what nigtmares do you all have, and please don't tell me you've had none.....................this is an internet dating site.................

you know what..it is luck...

geminiman61 nottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK

Tue Jun 2, 2009 6:26 PM CST : have any dating nightmares?

Seabiscuit: Did you not twig when 'it' asked to meet you at the Blue Oyster bar?

I loved that film Hightower and Mahoney

jojo69 Birmingham, but from Liverpool, West Midlands, England UK

Tue Jun 2, 2009 6:31 PM CST : have any dating nightmares?

mrsmiles4444: I have. Once I made the mistake, and yes it was a mistake, of corresponding with someone who had no pic posted.
STUPID, STUPID, STUPID, Al.
but my mistake was not in corresponding with this person, it was allowing it to go on, without requesting a pic.

OK, so here we are now talking on the phone, and she sounded like a nightingale. the sweetest, softest, sexiest voice, a man could ever dream of. so my mind got thrown for a loop, and I forgot all about the pic. " how could someone with such a voice, NOT be attractive." I thought.

Then the day came for us to meet, and I picked out this fabulous Carribean restaurant called Mango Mike's.
It was the middle of june, and when I met this woman in the parking lot, she wore a dress that went down to her ankles. " No biggy." I thought.

Something about her did not feel right. her hug was strong, and her voice now seemed to be not as soft or sexy.

being a trooper, I always go throgh with my date. I'm here, might as well make the best of it, even thogh I knew right away, I was not going to see this woman ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, again.

we were shown to our table, and of course it had to be right in the middle of the floor. where EVERYONE could see us. she proceeded to take off this sort of sweater she wore, and dam if she had muscles like Hercules. an Adams apple to boot.

her first words to me were, " well? what do you think?" I almst choked on my drink and avoided the question so as not to embarress her in public, but dam was it hard biting my tongue.

It appeared to me, I was having dinner with a man, and the eyes that burned the back of my head from everyone watching us, confirmed my suspissions.
I can't say for sure if she was or was not a man, but there's a gut feeling in me that is rarely wrong, and I could have bet my life right there on the spot that she was not of the female gender.

dinner was inhaled and we parted ways admorably. she emailed me inviting me to her place over the weekend. " OH PLEASE!"today, I'd like to add, I have no fear of talking to, or emailing anyone without a pic posted. I just learned a valuable lesson way back when, and it's forever on my mind.

what nigtmares do you all have, and please don't tell me you've had none.....................this is an internet dating site.................

Ahh bab.. I know you are not on CS anymore. But sure hope you look in from time to time.

I can't believe I missed this post first time round!!

I know what you went through is not funny. But..... Jeez it made me laugh so much........Must be the way you tell it!!!

Can just imagine you squirming in your dinner seat, everyone looking at you, while you have the equivulant of Geoff Capes, as your dinner partner!! LMFAO

Sorry bab!

geminiman61 nottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK

Tue Jun 2, 2009 6:51 PM CST : have any dating nightmares?

I have just remembered another tale i was seeing this girl whilst i was in the army i would have been around 18 she was 17 we had been out for the night i had just bought a sony walkman £210 they had just come out well i had it clipped to my belt.
We were desperate for sex with each other so we went behind her mam n dads bungalow they had the curtains open and i could see in which was a bit exciting knowing we were doing something so close and could get caught well we had just got a good rythem going and my sony walkman fell off my belt and smashed on the floor both her mums n dads eyes went straight to to window i gathered up my pieces and kissed her goodnight because it had ruined the momment

jojo69 Birmingham, but from Liverpool, West Midlands, England UK

Tue Jun 2, 2009 7:13 PM CST : have any dating nightmares?

geminiman61: I have just remembered another tale i was seeing this girl whilst i was in the army i would have been around 18 she was 17 we had been out for the night i had just bought a sony walkman £210 they had just come out well i had it clipped to my belt.
We were desperate for sex with each other so we went behind her mam n dads bungalow they had the curtains open and i could see in which was a bit exciting knowing we were doing something so close and could get caught well we had just got a good rythem going and my sony walkman fell off my belt and smashed on the floor both her mums n dads eyes went straight to to window i gathered up my pieces and kissed her goodnight because it had ruined the momment

Oh what a romantic you are/were?? LMAO

geminiman61 nottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK

Tue Jun 2, 2009 7:21 PM CST : have any dating nightmares?

jojo69: Oh what a romantic you are/were?? LMAO

din't you do knee trembler's when you were younger jojo?
When i was a lad we dint have no car no house and no money and hovis was 1 penny a loaf by heck lass i can remember it like it wer yesterday

jojo69 Birmingham, but from Liverpool, West Midlands, England UK

Tue Jun 2, 2009 7:33 PM CST : have any dating nightmares?

geminiman61: din't you do knee trembler's when you were younger jojo?
When i was a lad we dint have no car no house and no money and hovis was 1 penny a loaf by heck lass i can remember it like it wer yesterday

LMAO You are so funny.

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