Hi, another new one.

UK Forums » New Members Area » Hi, another new one.
page: 1 2 of 2
THREAD AUTHOR



paidinfull southampton, Hampshire, England UK
Wed Oct 1, 2008 6:29 PM CST : Hi, another new one.
Just coming in to say hi to everyone. I must say I'm quite encouraged by the lack of contact compared to certain other sites, I think you know what I mean.

I must try to read some of the posts here but theres seems so many, plenty of time though.

Regards to all Paul.
Quote Reply report this post
^ Back to top
mickeyscouse London, Inner London, England UK
Wed Oct 1, 2008 6:35 PM CST : Hi, another new one.
welcome kidda cheers

sites like this do work wine
Quote Reply report this post
^ Back to top



bren1 Bucks, Buckinghamshire, England UK
Wed Oct 1, 2008 6:58 PM CST : Hi, another new one.

Hi Paul cswelcome If Mickey can get lucky there's hope for the rest of us....... cheers

Good win tonight Mickey..... just a stroll in the park.

Stevie's 100th and Keane off the mark at last .
Quote Reply report this post
^ Back to top
mickeyscouse London, Inner London, England UK
Wed Oct 1, 2008 7:08 PM CST : Hi, another new one.
bren1: Hi Paul If Mickey can get lucky there's hope for the rest of us.......

Good win tonight Mickey..... just a stroll in the park.

Stevie's 100th and Keane off the mark at last .


yay stevies 100th and robbies 1st

i was there mate yeah ok watching on sky tv

cheers for the thanks nice one xxx
Quote Reply report this post
^ Back to top
mickeyscouse London, Inner London, England UK
Wed Oct 1, 2008 7:17 PM CST : Hi, another new one.
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

just see your response whatever your name is bren i think


anyhow you cheeky twat

i will give you a top referance
when you need one
cheers
Quote Reply report this post
^ Back to top



silverfox bangor, Gwynedd, Wales UK
Wed Oct 1, 2008 7:24 PM CST : Hi, another new one.
porob me
Quote Reply report this post
^ Back to top



Cutechick Newcastle Upon Tyne, Northumberland, England UK
Wed Oct 1, 2008 7:32 PM CST : Hi, another new one.
Hiya Paul and welcome to CS hope you find what your looking for xxhug
Quote Reply report this post
^ Back to top
Zellarrone1 Hull, Humberside, England UK
Thu Oct 2, 2008 9:34 AM CST : Hi, another new one.
cswelcome party hat
Quote Reply report this post
^ Back to top



paidinfull southampton, Hampshire, England UK
Thu Oct 2, 2008 2:13 PM CST : Hi, another new one.
Thanks for those replies, all very encouraging. I'll see what happens.
after all there's no such thing as a half empty glass is there?

Quote Reply report this post
^ Back to top
royston bristol, Avon, England UK
Tue Oct 28, 2008 10:12 AM CST : Hi, another new one.
hi paul know what you mean having the same troulbconfused frustrated sigh
Quote Reply report this post
^ Back to top



paidinfull southampton, Hampshire, England UK
Tue Oct 28, 2008 7:50 PM CST : Hi, another new one.
I had to add some comments here, I am a glass is half full type of person, even a bit of a knock has a positive effect.
I've been stood up, not once but twice by the same person, when we did meet, she was a stunner!!! we got on really well.
Had no contact for a few weeks but tonight she phoned.

The point I'm trying to make is when I stopped trying so hard it all got a bit easier.
I don't get stacks of emails or flowers and I'm not that bothered, after all it only takes one email!

Never give up, never.

Quote Reply report this post
^ Back to top
Angel_Diva wales, South Glamorgan, Wales UK
Thu Oct 30, 2008 5:35 AM CST : Hi, another new one.
hello and welcome....

angel
Quote Reply report this post
^ Back to top



Kevint Worcester, Home of the sauce, West Midlands, England UK
Thu Oct 30, 2008 5:41 AM CST : Hi, another new one.
paidinfull: I had to add some comments here, I am a glass is half full type of person, even a bit of a knock has a positive effect.
I've been stood up, not once but twice by the same person, when we did meet, she was a stunner!!! we got on really well.
Had no contact for a few weeks but tonight she phoned.

The point I'm trying to make is when I stopped trying so hard it all got a bit easier.
I don't get stacks of emails or flowers and I'm not that bothered, after all it only takes one email!

Never give up, never.


Hi and cswelcome Think you'll do ok here, you have the right idea, if you don't try so hard all of a sudden you find someone. But I still don't understand the logic to that


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Quote Reply report this post
^ Back to top



anglophile state, not DC, Washington USA
Thu Oct 30, 2008 4:50 PM CST : Hi, another new one.
Hi there. wave

cswelcome

So what's the story behind your name, "Paidinfull"?

Quote Reply report this post
^ Back to top



paidinfull southampton, Hampshire, England UK
Thu Oct 30, 2008 6:02 PM CST : Hi, another new one.
anglophile: Hi there.



So what's the story behind your name, "Paidinfull"?


Not much really, having been married for over thirty years to the girl of my choice, Felt a bit sorry for myself for a while after the split, at the time I felt I'd paid in full for not being more attentive to her.
Quote Reply report this post
^ Back to top
jojo69 Birmingham, but from Liverpool, West Midlands, England UK
Thu Oct 30, 2008 6:08 PM CST : Hi, another new one.
paidinfull: Not much really, having been married for over thirty years to the girl of my choice, Felt a bit sorry for myself for a while after the split, at the time I felt I'd paid in full for not being more attentive to her.



Oh wow! That was so sad, yet so beautiful!




Hi and welcome cswelcome
Quote Reply report this post
^ Back to top



anglophile state, not DC, Washington USA
Thu Oct 30, 2008 6:09 PM CST : Hi, another new one.
paidinfull: Not much really, having been married for over thirty years to the girl of my choice, Felt a bit sorry for myself for a while after the split, at the time I felt I'd paid in full for not being more attentive to her.


Impressive. You've became self-aware. Perhaps there's a chance you could get back together now that you are aware of what went wrong.

Show her that you've learned not to take her for granted.
Show her that you're still in love with the girl you met 30+ years ago.

If the embers are still burning, try fanning them to see if you can get that flame going again.

This will only work if the above is truly and sincerely true.
Quote Reply report this post
^ Back to top



paidinfull southampton, Hampshire, England UK
Thu Oct 30, 2008 6:29 PM CST : Hi, another new one.
We Didn't split on wednesday and I joined this site on Thursday, been through the flowers, and the poor me's.
But no more we've both moved on.
Quote Reply report this post
^ Back to top



anglophile state, not DC, Washington USA
Fri Oct 31, 2008 11:28 AM CST : Hi, another new one.
paidinfull: We Didn't split on wednesday and I joined this site on Thursday, been through the flowers, and the poor me's.
But no more we've both moved on.


Give yourself plenty of time otherwise you will just be going through rebound relationships. Being with someone just because your lonely is a bad foundation for a relationship. They never last and you end up going through the breakup and healing process all over again. That's so brutal.

Date for a while. A "date" in my definition is spending time with someone on a specific day and time but there are NO committments no expectations. Just simply enjoying the company of someone.


Best of luck and just enjoy being single for while.handshake
Quote Reply report this post
^ Back to top



paidinfull southampton, Hampshire, England UK
Fri Oct 31, 2008 8:23 PM CST : Hi, another new one.
anglophile: Give yourself plenty of time otherwise you will just be going through rebound relationships. Being with someone just because your lonely is a bad foundation for a relationship. They never last and you end up going through the breakup and healing process all over again. That's so brutal.

Date for a while. A "date" in my definition is spending time with someone on a specific day and time but there are NO committments no expectations. Just simply enjoying the company of someone.Best of luck and just enjoy being single for while.


I understand what you mean, enjoy someones company and that's all, as individuals!! When the time is right move on as a couple.

When I started out my first date led to marriage and children.

Thanks for taking the time everyone to help with these first awkward stepsbeer
Quote Reply report this post
^ Back to top
page: 1 2 of 2


Top of the page ^


Report this thread if it breaks rules, is offensive, or contains fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. If this thread is offensive, please click here to report it »



If site dates and times do not show correctly, you can fix this by editing your timezone
Click here to edit your timezone »