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I would live in tent if I was able to share it with the right person


Material things are great, especially when you're on your own, but who needs them when you have someone to share your life with.

I am wise I believe

I am healthy I think

I am wealthy I have my children

I am not as happy as I know I could be

Could i marry for money..yes.

I have also read in this thread that some of you wont marry again..Well diva said she doubts it..so she isn't sure.

What I reckon is if the right bloke came along into any of your lives and said I live you and you know they meant it and you felt the same. And that person asked you marry you would.

I also read that some of you prefer making love to having sex..Why..? When I was with the enemy we had lots of sex, sometimes i would go home and she would say phoenix i'm horny and it was a case of .."hello i'm johnny cash'...And we also did the fluffy duffy stuff...I would take her to a resturant and treat her like a princess and make love..
A few times i've met woman in bar,we get talking go to a hotel and sleep together and in the morning we go our seperate ways..no harm done.

Could i marry for money..yes.

I have also read in this thread that some of you wont marry again..Well diva said she doubts it..so she isn't sure.

What I reckon is if the right bloke came along into any of your lives and said I live you and you know they meant it and you felt the same. And that person asked you marry you would.

"I live you" !!???!!!

Can't even bring yourself to type the "3 little words"

I've heard "I love you" a lot in my life. A lot of times it was just to get me into bed. HA! When you know the games you don't fall for them. He will have to show me to prove it. Actions speak louder than words. I guess that's why Im not quick to get into a relationship until I know someone. I want to take time to get to know this person before I become his girlfriend.

I don't agree, for me I want to get into a relationship, that way we can find out about each other, if that turns to love even better, but you can't find everything about a future partner through exchanging emails or phone calls, there has to be quality time spent together, that not saying you sleep together on the second date, but it would need to happen in my caase before I was certain that the relationship would work on ALL levels


JMO

Dating is not a relationship. Dating is nothing more than spending time with someone on a set day and time.

During the time you are dating, you get to know this person. Learn about their beliefs, their goals, their hurts, their pains. You become friends.

Now after dating for sometime you BOTH decide you want to be exclusive with each other THEN you are in a relationship. OR, you may find you're not a love match but a great friends match.

I belong to no one until I decide I want a future with this person. Now mind you, relationships fail all the time.

A good starting point is a bedroom..For example you meet a bloke on a friday, you both have some wine, good food and you both go to quiet spot, hotel where-ever and then have sex , pillow talk(swap names, n°s etc..) Then on monday/tuesday the following week you either call or don't..Unless you don't like sleeping with someone on the first date..I don't expect it but i don't say no. Does that make me a male whore do care..

If a woman enjoys having sex for sex in my eyes and lots of my friends eyes they are not slappers or anything like it.. Some of them(girls) have responsible jobs thy have a high sex drive..

I wouldn't be having sex with the bloke I meet on Friday no matter how much I liked him. I know nothing of this person. He could have a disease for all I know or he could be a serial killer. I don't have sex with strangers.


As far as having sex when I need it, THAT'S WHAT FRIENDS ARE FOR. You've never the phrase "Friends with benefits"?

Part of the reason why i don't say those words..is what anglo said actions speak louder..Also words are promises..promises end..they aren't broken..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IuZkUftTwKo

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How could we know that the promises end?

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I try to love you for years upon years,
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And I'd still love you if you just like me.

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angliophile no offense but that statement is slightly tunnel visioned relationships don't always happen exactly like that. in fact i would of hated for any of my relationships to start like that sit and decide if you want to be exculsive?
and if dating is spending time with someone on a set day at a set time then i am dating my brother!! you don't have to be so pedantic!

Dating your brother? Let's not get ridiculous shall we. But then again, if your brother said "Hey sis, let's go see a film Friday night" and you reply joking "It's a date". Then Yes, you're dating your brother.

You have a dictionary...then use it and look up the definition. If not, then let me help you out.

Date, (noun)
An appointment, especially an engagement to go out socially with a member of the opposite sex, for example.

The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Third Edition copyright © 1992 by Houghton Mifflin Company.

If a guy says "Will you be my girlfriend?" and you say "Yes" then a decision has been made and you are now in an exclusive relationship.

On the other hand, if he decides he only wants to see you but you prefer to see other people at the same time then there is not a mutual feeling thus no relationship.

No, I wouldn't say my vision is narrow.

Your idea of dating someone seems to be very different from my experience here in the UK, maybe its a cultural thing , but for me if I am "Seeing" someone, but not yet in a relationship, I would still be exclusive to that person, how else can you build up to it becoming a relationship, I would feel that the person I was with was not particularly interested in me, its as though I was just a convenience, just there when others where not available.

Surely you would know within a very few meetings if you were attracted to the other person and if the feelings were mutual you move forward.

I had no idea that saying "will you be my girlfriend" was still in vogue, last time I said that I was about 10







No offence intended, just teasing ok

10, eh? You started young. You must be real smooth and very charming by time. No more nerves for you.

It's the spirit of what Im saying not a letter of law. Dating is light and fun yet casual. You can decide from day one to only date that one person you have a gut feeling could be the one.

Cultural, nah. I've always thought of things this way. I guess I just like good old fashion romance and courtship (to use a word of old). Now I have friends that say they "broke up" after 2 dates and Im like "Broke up?" "How could you break up? You weren't even together."

agree with you Anglo....your the Girl..think you know the word love................. .......

Thank you kind sir.

It seems men and women, in general, feel quite differently about sex, courtship, and relationships. That is why people end up getting their feelings hurt. The man may be thinking it is just a one night stand, while the woman may be having sex to deepen the relationship. I do know a few guys that have placed more meaning on the sex, but for the most part women are romantic at heart. There are a few women that are just "horny" and want a one night stand, but usually these women have hardened their hearts. I have noticed a different between the guys in the USA and the UK. The guys in the UK are a lot more casual about sex, and perhaps the UK women are as well, I'm not sure about the women in the UK, I haven't had much interaction. Flings are more risky for the women. They can get a disease, get pregnant, hook up with a serial killer etc. and guys only usually risk one of the three, and that is contracting a venereal disease.

Not me am a nice boy am not pregnant..not a serial killer.....and am not contracting anything

Your welcome......sweet-thing

Getting back to the OP, yes I think I could marry for money

I have been married for love and ended up with my heart broken

Yes it's nice to go out on a few dates and get to know someone

other times it's just sex that you want then thats fine too.. aslong as it's safe

Nah, I'm priceless, no one could afford me